True Love can happen once in a lifetime

A morning of love - This picture is showing a morning of love because instead of sun a heart is raising in the sky and enlightening the world with its light.
@arkasen (748)
India
May 20, 2009 1:36am CST
Do you belief that or you belief that we can fall into true love more than once?? I personally feel that we can only fall in true love once in a lifetime. We may have more than one relations but all of them are not true love. I think when we fall in true love its come from our heart and it is not possible to wipe out that feeling from our heart and mind. For the other relations I will say that they are just attraction or likings that's comes from our mind not from the deepest corner of heart. What do you say??
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• India
20 May 09
we can forget our first love....its very pure....i cant forget one of my fnd....i love her too much.... i cant say that it will happen in future....just remans in present n enjoy experience of love at every moment now.... lets wait n see !!!!
@arkasen (748)
• India
20 May 09
I will pray that the rule breaks and you get another true love. Best of luck. Keep your self engage in other things and you will feel much better.
• India
20 May 09
i first line there is word "cant" instead of can....sorry for that....
• United States
22 May 09
When I was in 11th grade(1980) I fell in love, Itried to tell her but failed to tell her personally, One of my friend helped me, he took my love letter and offered the girl and informed my name to her. She didn't accept the letter. I got upset. In 1989 I met with her , in the mean time she married to some one else. I got upset 2nd. time. In 1993 I married my wife. My wife is 10 times beautiful than that girl. 28 years ago I fell in love still I can't forget her, still she is in my heart. Thanks. Mira
• United States
26 May 09
stange !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
• Philippines
21 May 09
I also believe that true love happens once in a lifetime, but the problem is when, when can we meet the true love we are saying. I guess in every relationship we had we have to show our love that we love them dearly because we don't know when we meet our true. I haven't found one for me, maybe in the future.
@arkasen (748)
• India
23 May 09
Yes you are right. Most of us agree that the true love happens only once in life time but it is very difficult to judge which one is true love and which one is infatuation. I think who ever falls in more than one love it is very difficult for them to judge which relation is true and which one is false. Which will sustain for hole life and which one is just a matter of years. I also think most of the people are very confused about what they want from their love and that is why it becomes more difficult to judge which relation is true love and which one is not.
• Malaysia
20 May 09
I disagree. Love is a feeling and true love is subject to a person's interpretation of the chemistry and compatibility that one has with another person. It may be true that we may only find true love once in a lifetime but it does not necessarily applies to everyone on the planet. Some find true love numerous times and it is not surprising that a person might not find true love at all.
@arkasen (748)
• India
20 May 09
"Some find true love numerous times", I don't think this is possible because true love is very hard to find and most of the people do not find it only one. Who can someone find true love over and over again. If he/she is thinking all the relations true love then he/she is mistaking. There may be one or two person who have find true love more than once for example twice but that is an exception. And an exception proves the rule that "True love can happen only once in lifetime".
@cindyhxf (1446)
• China
21 May 09
someone never have true love in lifetime,but someone who could have many.depend on how the people think and what persons they will meet in life.it is hard to say never.differnt man will give me different love and feeling i am sure.but it is true love or not,judge by myself.
@arkasen (748)
• India
23 May 09
I don't think that there can be more than one love. I think when you are in true love you are not suppose to look for another suitable person. And if you will not do this then how will you find more than one true love. If you are saying that you are in true love and then looking for other alternatives then your present relation is not true love. Because true love demands loyalty,dedication and devotion. And if someone is dedicated in his/her love then he will not see other alternatives. Isn't it?
@geniustiger (1694)
• Philippines
20 May 09
I will agree on that , we stick to one love if we truely love that person. We express all our feelings to him whatever it is because we are so close to each other and relate each one.We dont want to be far from him/her and like to be with always. We want to show our best action that we in love and also vice versa to us.
@arkasen (748)
• India
20 May 09
Yes you are right. When someone is in true love then he/she does not feel any kind of attraction to other women/men. This is one sign of true love. If it is not present in someone's love then that is definitely not true love. Then its just an infatuation nothing else. True love is all about commitment and faithfulness.
• China
20 May 09
i dont know the true love is only once or not,but now i have been falling love with my girlfriend,i love her from my deepest corner of my heart.if the true love is really only once,that is the one!
@arkasen (748)
• India
20 May 09
If you feel that you can spend the hole life with her and can share everything with her then she is your true love. I hope you could spend the hole life with her in joy and happiness. Keep mylotting.
@rymebristol (1808)
• Philippines
20 May 09
i totally agree with that phrase, "TRUE LOVE CAN HAPPEN ONCE IN A LIFETIME". i also agree that a person can love more than once but the feeling wouldn't be the same when someone meet his/her true love. i had already found my TRUE LOVE but sad to say it didn't last that long, for she no longer exists in this world. i am definitely holding that phrase that she was my TRUE LOVE. now that she's gone, i don't know when will be the time when i can love someone again but all i can say is "IT WILL NEVER BE THE SAME"...
@arkasen (748)
• India
20 May 09
I feel sorry for you. But I really admire your feelings. You are absolutely write what you have said. You may fall in love with someone else but I think the feelings would be never the same again. That's why we feel very very sad when we loose someone so close to our heart.
• India
7 Jun 09
yes this is a wonder full feeling i heart it is can't say in world it pains but very sweet i feel it don't miss this sweet pain
@Ritchelle (3790)
• Philippines
20 May 09
hello friend. why do i have the feeling that you're still unmarried? well, there are two kinds of love. the one you are talking about is the one that we wish could be ours forever for all the right, proper, decent, rational reasons. however, there is another kind of love that fate deems more suitable for us and most of the time the kind of love that we end up with.
@arkasen (748)
• India
20 May 09
Well you are right I am unmarried. But I have girlfriend and I love her very much. I know I am in true love with her. I want to marry her and spend the rest of my life with her. I am very very happy that I got her in my life. She stood by in always and I can share everything with her. We have a very strong bondage and I know that will be for ever.
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
20 May 09
I am convinced that love happened just one time in our life. For love exist just one word, as exist just one feeling. LOVE, Who was real inlove, or are in love right now, know very well that this is the true. Even he/she want forget, and start other love relation, he/she can t,...or maybe can but will be just something fake. Love is unique, as we are unique too as person. Who meet love, and don t want accept that this is love, is a weak person who soon or later will pay, and this pay is very hurting, belive me.
@arkasen (748)
• India
20 May 09
Well said brother. I respect your feelings. I think its not possible to forget true love. Other relations are just full of compromise. But when you are in true love then there will be no compromise. Everything you will do, will do from heart. What do you say?
• United States
25 May 09
Well, I have never really thought about it, but you may be correct. Lots of relationships... but only one true love. Makes me want to stay away from relationships until I find that one "true Love'... I don't know for sure, but I've been told it's worth it!
@angelajoy (1825)
• Philippines
20 May 09
I fell in love when I was 15. Actually, I don't really know if that was true love or not. What I do know is that I've never loved anyone more than I love my boyfriend Jorge :) We've been together for almost 5 years and I hope that he'll be the one I grow old with.
@arkasen (748)
• India
20 May 09
For those persons who fall in love quite ofter it is very difficult to judge which one is true love. But in your case you are in a relation for five years and its a long time. I hope you will spend the rest of your life with him and he will turned out to be your true love. Best of luck.
• China
20 May 09
maybe it is once time in my life,when we have only one lover who we loved very much,we can say like this,but for some other people,they loved two or more person,they also thought everytime is ture love and they loved by their heart at the pains.i hope i love one time in my life which is my one and only deepest lover,but i also have to say that everything is possible.
@arkasen (748)
• India
20 May 09
I don't think who loves more than once they will say that. Because it is not possible to forget him/her once someone in true love. And if someone could not be able forget the past relation then how will the person give 100 percent in the new relation. When someone is in true love the he/she have to give 100 percent. So when someone is in true love then there is no true love possible after that.
@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
23 May 09
Hello arkasen, I don't know whether to agree with you on this or not. When I first met my ex-boyfriend, I thought that he is the one. I wanted to spend my entire life with him. It was love at first sight for both of us and we really loved each other. We were loyal and decided that life is meant for both of us. Unfortunately, we ended up our 10 years relationship a month before the engagement. After that, I met with a few men. I thought I fall in love again but after a few times, it was just the insecurity feelings inside me -the feelings of afraid to be alone and to have a companion just for fun. Years after the first love, I met my husband. I fell in love with him and he makes me forget the past. I find a new love and the feelings are greater than the first time. So, I think he is the one that I love the most and I want to love him forever, as long as I could. Well, in my case maybe my true love comes twice?
@jdyrj777 (6528)
• United States
22 May 09
I believe as long as your heart is open to love it could happen as many times as youi are willing.
@veejay19 (3589)
• India
22 May 09
I agree with you wholeheartedly on this point that true love happens only once in a lifetime. I am giving you my example. When i was young i fell in love with a girl and she too fell in love with me. We had an intense affair for two years but had to forcibly break up since our parents were against our marrying. Of course we were still studying and our working career was still a long way off. In this love affair of mine i completely burnt my heart out and after that couldn`t get the same feeling for any other girl. I tried hard but failed to get the same intensity so i gave up. Now i am still single and have got on with age and i do not think that i will ever find anyone to love. Love, when it happens hits you hard and comes straight from the heart. If you are successful then you will get bonded for life with your mate.If not then all other affairs are only infatuations and have nothing to do with the heart but only with the body. So i feel that one can love just once and not several times as all other liasions are temporary and will not last long whereas true love is eternal .
@fwangaa (3057)
• China
25 May 09
no . i don't agree you. i think that come from the deepest corner of heart. i always use my mind to treat love but that not the true love , and i don't always smart . when my mind not true. they will not love me again. so l think love from heart.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
22 May 09
It is interesting to think about. I think that to find true love even once in a lifetime is very fortunate because there are many who never get to experience it or they think they have until it really comes along! As to whether the magic of real love can occur more than once' I don't see why not...I tend to think that more often than not folks are lucky if they find it just once and that it is not as common as we would like to believe. Just because it is usually a once in a lifetime experience who is to say that one cannot be fortunate enough to find it again? I compare it to winning the big lottery prize, lucky the first time but who's to say it couldn't happen twice? A long shot sure, but not impossible.
• Malaysia
25 May 09
is it like steward and bella? haha