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Hi, welcome to myLot. Yeah computers have both positive and negative effects. Why not just talk to your husband about how you feel? Maybe he'll listen to you and make it up to you. You both might just end up spending more time together than usual. Another way you could get your husbands attention is to be with him while he is online, I mean you can sit beside him and ask what his affairs are. Or you have two computers, you can be online also and get to interact with him online. Those are just my suggestions. Goodluck and I hope everything works out between you and your husband.