what you will chose your bf/gf or your best friend?

@rich_yu (163)
Israel
May 20, 2009 12:38pm CST
my bestfriend and his bf always fight because of me the guy is always upset to my friend when ever me and my friend be together.and one day the guy ask my friend if my friend dont leave me he will leave her..so my friend say to his bf okey if you want to leave me because of my freind just leave me...so now the guy leave her..if you what you will do?
6 responses
• Malaysia
20 May 09
i would choose best friends..for me, i think friends is more important than bf/gf..this is because friends can help you whenever you need them.. and they are the one who can lend you a hand..and when you need to voice out your feeling you will look onto them as well
@rich_yu (163)
• Israel
1 Jun 09
thanks for sharing your opinion.
• United States
20 May 09
First of all, kudos to your friend. While it's important to be close with your partner, it's not fair to tell them who and who not to be friends with. I am glad your friend told him to kick rocks, so to speak. It seems like this guy wanted to control her and she made the right decision by standing up for herself.
@rich_yu (163)
• Israel
1 Jun 09
thanks for comment and your rigth my friend did a rigth decision in her life..
@23uday (2997)
• India
20 May 09
hi well i would choose my best friend.because my best friend understands much better than my girl friend.and he has been my best friend since from my child hood. how can i just leave my best friend and i will be always with him,who is caring and loving.and encouraging when i am depressed and always showing me the bright side of the future. happy mylotting
@deouscef (25)
• Philippines
20 May 09
for me, i think there's no need to pick one over the other. a bestfriend gives us unconditional love. it does not require anything in return and is always available whenever you need help. it strives more on quality time than quantity. aside from your parents and relatives, this person knows you best and understands any situation you are in. a gf/bf or partner provides romantic love. romance needs to be nurtured, which eventually requires a lot of time. it needs to grow by providing attention and love. i'm pretty sure your bestfriend understands and will spare you from the problem by limiting his/her time with you. but i'm confident that everything will remain the same. he/she will always be willing to be of service to you even in the slightest chance. just make your presence felt by giving him/her updates every now and then to show you remember him/her. manage your time properly between them and everything will be alright.
• India
20 May 09
i will not let anyone of them go..coz i knw i need both of them in life.. best frnd and gf are best part part of life..the matter u can share wid ur frnd u cant share dat wid ur gf dat easily.. each of them hve their own importance.. i cant leave anyone of them..if the situation arises i will not talk to both..
• India
20 May 09
if i was there in that situation i would not have any problems if they seems to be only good friend and nothing else then it will be no problem for me and how ever it is the matter of trust and faith that how much you trust your partner.