My sister's married boss is courting Her

@macel19 (202)
Philippines
May 20, 2009 8:43pm CST
How can i convince my sister to stay away with her boss? She's been working for 5 years in that particular company.The company pays her very well. Need some help here
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@lupin0302 (137)
• Philippines
25 May 09
i think your sister should be the one to tell her boss that she dont like him courting her. be professional. and i dont think her boss will gonna fire her if she will reject her boss proposal. as long as she is an assets in the company. and as long as she is doing her job. why will she be scared. unless she have a feelings for her boss too. if that will be the case i think you better talk to your sister to tell her that it is wrong because she will end up looser in the end.
• United States
23 May 09
If I'm understanding this right your sister is dating a married man or if not dating seing. Then you can tell her what you think like the fact that what she is doing is not helthy and that she is not going to get him in any way. Men will lie to get what they want I know but just to get it straight not all men are liers. And since his married and his trying with your sister then he is a lier and she sould know that. Maybe his telling her yes I love you and I'm going to marrie you but there is a 1 out of 10 that he will. But if she dose not what to listen to you there is only one thing you can do and that is to be with her and support her in what ever she wants to do. Because if everything those not work with him she is going to need someone to be there for her to push her up.
• United States
21 May 09
My normal response to such a question would be to be honest with her and to make sure that she knows that you only have her best intention at heart... But from one sister to another I can tell you that all you can do is tell her that you love her and be there when it blows up in her face... Situations that like that rarely end well and when they do end it is usually a huge chaotic explosion of hurt feelings and often law suits... Depending on the state that she lives in, her boss' wife could press charges for what is called "Lost affection." In some states it is perfectly legal for the spurned wife to take bother her husband and his mistress to court. Perhaps if the morality of what she is doing isn't enough to stop her the legality of it will... Good Luck.