how often do you and your mate go out alone
By psychotaz206
@psychotaz206 (2086)
United States
May 20, 2009 10:22pm CST
how often do you and your mate spend time alone out , me and my husband don't spend alot of time alone outside because we have 4 children and can't seem to find the time but today we went shopping without the children it felt weired because its been sence december sence we been out alone . we are supose to go out to the movies on tuesday . we where talking today and we think we are going to try to get some time alone out of the house at least once a month so we can try to recindle our marridge ,
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11 responses
@tbrown1227 (221)
• United States
21 May 09
alone time for us is a foreign word to us, you see we have 4 kids, i don't even get to sleep a full 8 hrs a night. our alone time comes either late at night or early in th morning if you know what i mean....
late at night like maybe sat. we will go and take a shower together, just because it is intimacy for us. as far as going out alone we never do, if i can't take the kids out with us we don't go they deserve some out time as well.
@psychotaz206 (2086)
• United States
21 May 09
i understand but you also need your outside alone time as well
@tbrown1227 (221)
• United States
21 May 09
thats to hard were we live i don't know anyone i trust with my kids, so for now we sneak it when we can get it.
@phyrre (2317)
• United States
21 May 09
We don't have kids yet, but we work a lot and usually opposite hours (I go to work as soon as he gets home), so the most time we spend together is usually when we're sleeping...lol. But it's still rather nice to have "us" time. We try not to go out too often, though. Maybe once a month we go out for dinner alone together to McDonalds or something, but most of our "us" time is spent cuddling in front of the tv or just talking and catching up. ^_^ It's a lot better than going out anywhere.
@wsue1023 (1395)
• United States
21 May 09
Not nearly enough! We haven't been out together in a year or better, but are planning on something soon to celebrate an anniversay. Hopefully it really happens! If not, I'll be completely bummed.
We've been married almost 10 years and have 2 kids... so I guess that's what happens.
@Mikaela_taz25 (1842)
• Philippines
21 May 09
Oh, I have been busy lately with my work but last month my hubby and I were dating for two times a week.first we went to the Mall of Asia and done Shopping. then w e went to the back and look at the beautiful Sun set.then the second was in Tagayay, 
Philippines where he and I did something that our parents used to do when we were kids, Old Fashioned Picnic. we were so happy and talked a lot of things...until he kissed me and almost make out on the grass
@Rayray13 (24)
• United States
21 May 09
man am I happy for everyone at least you have a mate, im still dreaming about min. one day ..one day soon hopefully. but thats good you and your husband is hanging out spending alone time togather ever person should spend some alone time with there wife or husband.
@flagella08 (5065)
• Philippines
21 May 09
we're always together and always stick to other no matter what. we're best buddies and share the same likes and dislikes. we frequently go to malls and watch movies before. now that we have a kid, it's always threesome on other stuffs.
@3SnuggleBunnies (16374)
• United States
21 May 09
We don't get out alone very often either if @ all. My in-laws would watch my 3 from time to time but in the past yr they have both become ill w/ cancer and are having enough troubles of their own functioning & they were the only ones we could trust to watch them. So now we have to wait til SIL2 comes into town & beg her to watch them so we can get out. Sad thing is last time she only gave us 2 whole hrs we had no idea what to do with ourselves it had been so long *lol*
@froggieslover (3069)
• United States
21 May 09
HAHAHAHA....that is too funny! What is alone? My husband and I have been together for ten years and have two kids together therefor we don't know what alone time means either. Any time that we may be able to get alone we are usually so exhausted that we just sack out and relax.
@flutterbykisses (593)
• United States
21 May 09
I think that is nice and all married couples should make times for each other, esoecially when there are still children in the house.
We can get caught up in the trials of eveyday life and sometimes forget to remember the people who are important to us and spending time with them.
Have fun on your dates and don't do anything I wouldn't do..lol
flutterby
@always_natalia (444)
• Indonesia
21 May 09
We don't have kids yet, so we try to go out alone as often as possible. But we can't go out much in the past few months due to the rainy season and my mom's health condition, but we spend our evenings at home watching TV, cooking together, or just talking about anything instead.
