Do you believe in love through internet?

Love  - Love through internet
@YazEid (1139)
Philippines
May 20, 2009 10:25pm CST
The communication revolution changed the way through which people meet, in old ages love and wedding were limited to family and relatives. after that dating started to be a pre-love or pre- marriage condition.. All the old methods of meeting had the visible human feelings and emotions as an important structure for the successful relation Now with the internet era, where you can't find a house without internet, people started to have net-friends more than they do in their real lives, they talk, they negotiate and after a period of time you start to like the person whom you are dealing with, but will that develop to real love or it is just an exaggerated likeness to that person, and would it succeed?? OR it is just our pre-judgment for the new things which after few years will be the official way of meeting?
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• Malaysia
22 May 09
i have some friends who met in the internet n became a couple..but they broke up already
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@YazEid (1139)
• Philippines
31 May 09
why was that ?
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• Malaysia
3 Jun 09
i dont know the reason they broke up..i never ask..but from what i know.. the girl who wants it
• United States
21 May 09
I don't think finding true love over the internet is really possible. I feel like people use the internet anymore if they're shy and can't talk to people in person, so they use the internet as a way to hide. Then, you never really know what you're getting into over the internet either. You never know what the person on the other end looks like, acts like and how they really treat people until you meet. I just don't think it's possible. I've seen it go badly on too many occasions with several people to really believe that finding love online is possible.
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• China
21 May 09
Nothing is impossible,it only decides upon yourself.
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• Philippines
21 May 09
I do believe in love through the internet. I am in a serious and committed relationship at the moment. Me and my bf met each other through an online dating website. We had a few chat through instant messenger before we decided to meet up personally last year. We really felt comfortable with each other when we first met, its like we know each other for a long time. He even told me that he felt that I am his gf the first day that he met me. It was love at first sight. We became friends and spend some time together. We fell in love more to each other when we went for a vacation. When we parted, he realized that he has really fallen in love with me. We continued our communication through calls, sms and chats because he lives in a different country. He came back after a few months, he was here lately and we took another vacation together. He has suggested to me to live with him in his country and to arrange it within this year. I think we are both lucky as we both like each other from the very start and we have a lot of things in common as well.
@smileonstar (4007)
• United States
21 May 09
I do believe in love through internet... and this is my own experience. I married to my bf, who I met online (yahoo messenger). He lived in my home town and I had school in USA. it took us 2 years on the phone and on the chat thing. finally, we are together... I am telling you that there are many things got involve between us and it was so hard to get through but I still stand up and won everything. :)
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@YazEid (1139)
• Philippines
21 May 09
nice to hear that
@zhdy89 (301)
• China
22 May 09
I think that love is present in any place,any time.It is everywhere and at all times.The key is you have not met your love.I do believe in love through internet.Worked in the website,witnessed tie the knot of a dozen Interenet friends.Internet contact with each other,it is just only a platform,a communication tool like telephone. Internet allows everyone on the Internet have known each other for the opportunity to break the time barrier region.As long as each other in good faith,love,can be transmitted through the Internet.Perhaps the process will be hard,maybe easy,but love to win!Bless the lovers all the world!
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• United States
22 May 09
In my opinion know I do not belive in love threw the internet If you ask me why well because people hide behind this compter screen they can change what they are who they are where they live everything you do not know a person until you are standing infront of them talking to them being part of their life
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@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
21 May 09
The only thing that really has changed by meeting people on the Internet is that it give you access to so many more people. Yes you can get closer much faster but nothing replaces getting together for the old fashion dating. People who fall in love on the Internet and then run to each other for marriage are short circuiting the whole process and will be very fortunate indeed if there relationship is successful.
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• Poland
20 Aug 09
I love to surf the web create in various programs to talk to pepole live much
• Philippines
21 May 09
i do also believe here. as long as they communicate each other everyday. i do believe also that many people have more friends through internet than their real lives. well, it really depends to the two people itself if it would be successful or not. i've read some stories about this and it is really possible that online friends can turn into world real friends or maybe your spouse. i have my online friends too, but i don't know if we could last forever. which i hope to happen,.
@hanah87 (1835)
• Malaysia
3 Jun 09
I never believe in love through internet.Sometimes people can cheat on it.Many girl have been cheat and get raped by their boyfriend they know from internet.I think love in internet is not good and just has a little benefit.Thank you.
@YazEid (1139)
• Philippines
4 Jun 09
maybe they should have know those persons more before moving into another step of their relationship . I don't know , some sick people use internet to express their twisted thoughts , they shouldn't have a good time Hanah
• India
22 May 09
Ya I believe in love through internet..Time has changed and no more peoples are coming in touch through net...People think that net is best way to love..Love is only through net is more optionable...The way through which people met by their family has been changed
@mymaria (379)
• Philippines
21 May 09
hi Yazeid! Will for me, I have friend who got married in communicating only in the internet!. Yahoo Messenger right. Now she have an boyfriend for 1 year in German then they decided to got married. My friend really love that guy, know why?. she really spend her time going in the internet cafe to chat with her boy friend. Her boyfriend also does not leave her, they simply calling each other, and chatting. When the boy offer something, Wow very special!. to got married!, my friend really got the opportunity to be with him. And now they live happily ever after. They went in German to live their and until now we chat everyday. In my own opinion, I believe that there is a love through internet it depends only the situation. Thank you! Happy Mylotting!
• Philippines
21 May 09
Yes, I believe sometimes. I had a friend who has a chat mate from Norway. Now they are happily married. But sometimes I disagree with this kind of relationship because you can't avoid to tell a lie. Also some bad people use internet to lure somebody. So maybe, just being careful is what matters most.
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@3orabi (529)
• Jordan
1 Jun 09
to be honest with you I don't believe in this type of love ... because you can many things behind your monitor ... any one can change all his personality in chatting and pretend that he is acute angle ... I think each couple must meet personally so that they know each other much more better ...
• United States
21 May 09
Well, I met a wonderful man online. We dated for about a year, split up for about a year (he had some commitment issues) but we remained friends, then we got back together and have been together ever since. We are the proud parents of a 3 year old daughter and are very happy. It's possible to meet the love of your life online. I am a true believer. This summer we have been together 8 years.
• United States
22 May 09
I do not believe in love through the computer, although there are mayn sites where you can see their face, it would be better to date someone who you know in real life, so you know their REAL personality... Also, if you go on like mate.com or whatever, they could be lying at you through their profile!
• Malaysia
21 May 09
it is depends on people... how they feel to each other after meeting... 1st date is to know better...
@cili82 (32)
• Malaysia
21 May 09
there's a lot of couples nowadays which build their marriage through online communicating..well i could say it could be 50-50...its up to the person himself to judge..because i see in this generation,internet like a human needs,anything can happen in this world,people can make friend without ever see each other...only base on our feeling to judge..so,for me, i will not be suprised and believe if after this someone will telling me that he's getting married with an 'internet girl'..
• United States
21 May 09
In fact I do believe in that, my first marriage I meet him on the internet,and we got to share a lot of things, we only last for 3 years since we were too young, I was 18yrs, and now I met my fiance on the internet aswell and we are perfect for each other, well so far everything's great, and we are expecting our 1st baby, so what I really believe is that if someone is meant to be with you then it doesnt really matter how u met him/her ;)
• Bulgaria
21 May 09
Love can happen in any way. Why not through internet? This is the big thing with love. We don't choose how, when, where and with whom to happen. If we meet the person that is meant to be with us online, why not? The question is whether online communication is enough to understand that this is the right person. Definitely no. I wouldn't fall in love until I see the eyes of my beloved.