Is it my fault for keeping single till now ?

@youetme (351)
China
May 21, 2009 5:15am CST
I am still single although I am 33 years old this year . For long time I don't think it is abnormal for me keeping single till now . But others including some of my friends ,my co-workers , my leaders think something is wrong with me . In their eyes I become a very strange girl who has no own husband or boyfriend . The fact is I really haven't found my true love I made my effort before long but I failed . So I need time to wait and hope . So I want to forget what others advice and different voice . I want to go in my own way .
5 responses
lynn1981
@lynn1981 (24)
• China
23 May 09
it's not you fault for keeping single.you should better forget different voice which from your friends,co-works and others people.keeping happy is very important. good luck!
youetme
@youetme (351)
• China
23 May 09
Compared with you I am not so young . You know younth is so important for people everyone wants younth but younth is easy to go . So I constantly encourage myself with a poem named Youth written by American poet . Youth is not age but emotion not red cheeks ,lips ,knees but a spring of life going . So single is not terrible while the emmotion of single is so bad . Yes ,keep a good emotion and live a happy life !
aicil01
@aicil01 (23)
• Philippines
23 May 09
No, its your feelings' fault since you've said that you're still single because you have not yet found your true love. Moreover, nowadays, it is normal when other people criticize you for being single since for them is a must to have one. Anyway just let them also maybe they are just concern thinking that you're sad for not having a partner.
cudamani
@cudamani (996)
• India
21 May 09
It is not fault at all. Nothing is in our hands. Man proposes and God disposes.
chillpill90
@chillpill90 (1936)
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21 May 09
no not at all some people look and look for a partner for so long then they get bored and need a break for a bit. Its not weird as im sure its not the highest priority of yours and no one knows when they will find a partner. Ignore your colleagues its your life and so just do what makes you happy.
janiceines
@janiceines (799)
• Singapore
21 May 09
it is also good to remain single as you can enjoy your freedom , don't be bother with what other saying , just because of your age and other talk and get marriage with someone that you don't really love and you'll regret