Willl there be anybody you won't want to get too intimate with?
By mimimeow
@mimimeow (295)
Hong Kong
May 21, 2009 12:02pm CST
I would say I am fairly easy going. I get along with all kinds of people but then getting along with them is one thing, getting intimate is another thing.
I have a girl colleague whose characters I don't really agreed much too. Well, I don't mean all my friends has to be same as / similar to me. I can't accept that that too. It's just some of her behaviours or opinions of life is so absolutely too opposite from mine and too "inferior" than mine, I find her sometimes very disagreeable. But as I listened to all her complaints (actually sometimes out of politeness) and troubles, she seems to think I am a good friends of her. On my side, I just don't want to hurt her to say I don't really care half the things she told me. My atitude, I doubt, invite her more. I am not preparing to get intimate with her, anyway.
I just wonder is it common for that to happen. 'cause for my other friends, we always have something alike that links us together.
1 response
@cmy1004f (381)
• China
25 May 09
Your discussion confirm again that is difficult to get a really good friend, we will touch a lot of people in our life, some of them will become our firends, it is hardly to be more close from this base. maybe you cannot accept something of your fiends, maybe your friends cannot accept something of you, so that cannot show all of self. Sometime I would like a perfunctory manner with face some friends, not equal I don't like them, actually for some topic I really not interesting in or other thing, but it will get more trouble if the friends catch my real thinking. Maybe there also need some well-intentioned deception or lies among friends, or this idea is the real cause of I do not have many friends.
@mimimeow (295)
• Hong Kong
4 Jun 09
I have several best friends and I don't mind people knowing what I am thinking of. Easier for me to tell the truth than hiding my true self from people. But then for me, it's more the kind of feelings that I cannot go on deeply with some people. I've tried but I stopped at certain point. A feelings that we don't worth to go more intimate.
