How do to have Fun ?

Kuta, Indonesia
May 21, 2009 4:13pm CST
I have not been experimenting with drugs till now. But my friend have been experiment with drugs for some time, nothing fancy, just pot. he do it out of boredom, just to have Fun. I mean, I would like to hang out at a club, but that would be too expensive for me ( I'm going to the club when my friend invites me ). I don't like reading and I am sick of watching movies ( reading and watching movies not my hobbies ). So, How do I have Fun and remain sober at the same time ? Also, any tips on how to fend off offers to toke up (Fun without drugs) ?
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carrine
@carrine (2743)
• Philippines
22 May 09
wow, your one of a kind. LOL when i dont have any appointments, due dates for anything, i just stay in my house, i read a lot about money matters, how do get rich, on how to save, how to start a business on so on,. and if i get of reading, i go to my mini garden and do the gardening, and listens music. those are my activities and i have fun on doing those stuff.
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newhotelus
@srikandi19 (3391)
• Kuta, Indonesia
23 May 09
yeah .. I am doing the way right now. But I still beginner and need more practice
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newhotelus
@srikandi19 (3391)
• Kuta, Indonesia
22 May 09
yeah .. I like learning how to making money and how to be rich . But I learn from Internet while listening music. I am bad book readers.
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carrine
@carrine (2743)
• Philippines
22 May 09
yeah its better to be well equip on handling money matters and businesses. thats the only thing that i can inherit to my kids, i want to change the views of most Filipinos that after college find a good job to any company who pays well, unlike Chinese people, their teaching to their kids are, you study hard now, and after studying you start your own business. and look at the Chinese people? they are all rich. and they are good on saving money and do budget well. i want to practice their style honestly.
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pelastikbintang
@pelastikbintang (325)
• Malaysia
22 May 09
y don't u hang out with ur friends and go shopping or go to beaches. im sure it will be fun. u also can throw a party just for fun :D
newhotelus
@srikandi19 (3391)
• Kuta, Indonesia
22 May 09
Yup .. I'm very like shopping and going to beach. But I rarely do that
newhotelus
@srikandi19 (3391)
• Kuta, Indonesia
22 May 09
window shopping make me interested and envious
pelastikbintang
@pelastikbintang (325)
• Malaysia
22 May 09
y ??its fun to go shopping with friends ..window shopping at least..if i don't have any money.. :P beaches is the best i guess. I could play with my friends in the water or on the beach making sand castle bury my friend or play soccer :D
sweetychandu7
@sweetychandu7 (1120)
• India
22 May 09
why you are not interested in watching movies there are lot more movies which are romantic,action,dramatic,sci-fic movies which are best and why don't you try them once and you can enjoy really if you watch with your friends.Or any animation movies which makes really thinkable about the way they created the characters dear...Otherwise try to enjoy with kids nearby your neighborhood...it will be good and gets happiness tooo...
newhotelus
@srikandi19 (3391)
• Kuta, Indonesia
22 May 09
I am rarely watching movies, usually while I watch Movie I be sleep. Thanks for your idea about plays with kids, I will try.
sweetychandu7
@sweetychandu7 (1120)
• India
22 May 09
Thanks a lot dear and please try t play with the kids you will forget about yourself as because of their innocence and their questions...Really if you hear their questions you will get amazed how clever they are and i am sure you can't have and can't tell the answers to them dear!!Just try and get back to me and message me about your experiences playing and spending with them okay!!! have a good day ahead!!!
newhotelus
@srikandi19 (3391)
• Kuta, Indonesia
23 May 09
Yup .. playing with my kid neighbor is Fun. although they are little jerk, but I enjoyed I don't need to protecting my image in front of them.
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thejuice
@thejuice (235)
• Indonesia
22 May 09
sometimes i have a condition like you.., don't know how to have a fun. but these day i have a new hobby.., make money online and make friends at mylot and twitter make me addicted into that.when i'm at home play with my little niece or just listen to the radio makes me more relax.
newhotelus
@srikandi19 (3391)
• Kuta, Indonesia
23 May 09
Yup .. make money online is my habits too but sometimes I feels angry and boring when my connection unstable
honeyballuu
@honeyballuu (16)
• Turkey
22 May 09
If you're in an interesting city and you're interested in history or science you could go to museums?? Or take up a sport? It doesn't have to be anything fancy just get a bike or go swimming or something?
newhotelus
@srikandi19 (3391)
• Kuta, Indonesia
23 May 09
I like swimming, but I rarely swim because I busy with my job. maybe 3 month a go I swim in swimming pool.
Beenice
@Beenice (237)
• Canada
22 May 09
You are with the wrong crowd.You are not getting a good life and good future like that. Sure you are bored. Nothing will change until you change.
newhotelus
@srikandi19 (3391)
• Kuta, Indonesia
23 May 09
Yes, I want change my life to be better
coldmoon
@coldmoon (1088)
• France
22 May 09
After refusing most of good recreation types which can bring the fun to you, you ask how to have fun, it's a contradiction, isn't it? Anyway I suggest you going out with friends or making friends. I always laugh while being with my friends.
newhotelus
@srikandi19 (3391)
• Kuta, Indonesia
22 May 09
I mean How do have fun without doing Bad activity. I also like have a lot of friends
cudamani
@cudamani (996)
• India
22 May 09
Do the things you like the most and that is the best way to have fun. You need not follow others who do the things of their choice to have fun.
sid556
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
22 May 09
I don't know. I would think that if you want to have fun without smoking pot but have trouble turning it down then you should find friends that don't smoke to hang with. Personally, I don't see anything wrong with pot. It's natural.
liuyannecessary
@liuyannecessary (30)
• China
22 May 09
Hi srikandi19, I think it's not good to watch movies many times. You eyes may get sick if they are used too much. If you'd like to have fun, I have some suggestions here: 1, You may choose to meet your friends, have a talk or go shopping with them. 2, You can travel in your spare time. 3, You can climb mountains to enjoy the process and scenery. 4, Reading books of various kinds is interesting for me. Do you like it? 5, Call your parents or relatives to get to know how are they these days. If you have any comments about this, please feel free to let me know.
newhotelus
@srikandi19 (3391)
• Kuta, Indonesia
23 May 09
I like you advice in number 1 and number 2. about climb mountains, I never do that and I am bad reader. and absolutely I never forget for my parents, although my parents only my father. I love he. when I have rest money, usually I going to my parent house. by the way, than ks for your advice
Flirtykumquat
@Flirtykumquat (927)
• United States
21 May 09
If I am not going out I love to have people at the house just to chill. We laugh talk about old times, take pics, and do whatever. There are even times when we play spin the bottle and add a twist to it or something. I don't think going out partying and smoking is the answer to fun all the time. If you are around fun people then that is all you need.
newhotelus
@srikandi19 (3391)
• Kuta, Indonesia
22 May 09
Thanks for your suggest. by the way I still single and I rented a house alone.