would you like know everything even if it could hurt badly?
By cainam
@cainam (493)
Philippines
May 22, 2009 12:23am CST
sometimes, it is more uncomplicated if secrets will be kept hidden. as to my cousin's situtation it should have been much better if he did'nt know that he is only an adopted child. he could be alive till now.. to many broken families where the wife knew about the affair of her husband to other woman and decided to break up with his husband.. i would also not be in great pain now if i did'nt know how many times my boyfriend cheated on me. how i wish i never know.. maybe most of you would prefer to know everything for you not to feel stupid. but for me, stupidity is bearable than pain.
3 responses
@UnderSea (69)
• United States
22 May 09
I would still like to know the truth rather than not knowing. Isnt this what living a life is all about? to know the truth and to deal with it and face it. Or I might as well not exist... what is the difference between not knowing and living in a dream or a fantasy land. They say ingorant is a bliss.. I say knowledge is power.
@med889 (5941)
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22 May 09
I prefer to know everything even if it hurts I think it is this which I will want someday if such situation crop up. In my couple we have decided to adopt a child one day, we have always wanted that,and we have decided to tell the child this matter as soon as we feel he can grasp the matter intelligently, he will be hurt a bit as my mom was when she came to know about her adoption, but later I think my child will be okay with us, I hope so as My partner does.
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
22 May 09
I think it's best to know the truth about everything right on. There's no use keeping it because it will just delay the agony. Like you said, we might feel stupid if we don't know a thing to what's really the real score. Well i don't think i'd like to live with all the lies, do you?
