If your partner got to many kg,(fat) , your relation will be affected?

I'd be committing a sin if I don't tell my partner that he should exercise and go on a diet. Of course, these things should be said in a nice way to avoid offending my partner. My main reason for wanting to tell my partner to do so is not because it's what I want, but it really is for him. He has to do it for himself. We all know that being overweight poses a lot of threats to ones health.

guys..they think that it's ok for them to be fat and for girls they are so harsh on discriminating us when we gained just a bit. so unfair... but anyway...I just tell him straight..it's for his health anyway

I will be very honest to him and tell him the truth but if will not affect our relationship at all, I love him and will always no matter what is his weight but yes I will tell him to take care if it will affect his health. He may be offended a bit as I will be if he would say this to me but I think in the end he will understand that I was only saying this for his betterment.

In my relationship, I am fat and my boyfriend is fit. At this moment, we don't really have a problem with it as I am not too overweight and I still can do sports. I am the one who always complaining about my weight and he just listen and try helping me to loose some pounds. However, we don't really see that my weight is going to affect our relationship in anyway.

I will tell him to do more excerise for sure. Personally I think its part of taking care of yourself and not let yourself go. I would do the same for him too, to keep fit and healthy. I think we all need to work on all different areas to learn and grow together as a couple and being fit and physically healthy is one of it.

i would try to convince him to lose weight but i will make it clear to him that it's not because i don't like the way he looks but because i'm so concerned about his health. it is a common knowledge that fat people are more prone to many kinds of diseases like high blood pressure and heart diseases. right now, my husband can be considered fat but i still like and love him.

I've told my wife (the Leader of the Opposition) if she ever gets skinny I'll leave her. Women were built to have curves, have you ever seen anyone as lovely and wholesome as Patricia Arquette? (She's in "Medium" on TV).

Both are important but inside is a little more important. I like men who are a little wide but not too wide. If he has started to overeat while he is with me, I would try to talk to him about it, I think it is a sign that he isn't happy. and if we should part so he could be happy, then I would leave. I care about him and for some reason he isn't happy.But if in 2 years he has just gained 10 pounds, then that's not a problem.

It would not bother me on how I feel about them but I would be concerned about their health

If you really love someone from your heart then looks doesn't really matter. I don't like people thinking that being a bit fat is bad, just think if you and your partner end up in a unknown place with no food. Who do you think would survive more you or him?

yea, in my case it is completely opposite becoz my wife thin and thinner than i wanted her to be. However, the essence is thw same. I have tried for her and yet find good ways to make her healthier. What i say is-fat or thin should not affect the relation. Meanwhile, u should make her/him understand that u love her/him very much, so should maintain the health.

I would still think that the hubby is sexy if he gained weight, I totally love him! I would never stop because of weight. I would be worried about his health though. Reports show that not only can obesity lead to heart problems, but cancer. I would try to cook low fat meals and do really healthy things with him. We already watch what we eat and hike, so I guess, we would step it up ;)

if my partner will gain weight i dont think that it will affect our relationship. but i will get concerned about his health, if he really gets fat. i would suggest to him that he go on exercise and diet to lose some weight for the sake of his health. we could be exercising together so it would be fun and not boring to him.

It will only be affected because I would worry about his health and not his appeareance.

well actually that will never be the basis of your relationship. If we are just going to look for their weight problem, then i can say that you haven't loved a person who he or she really was. I don't have a problem whether i gain a lot or if my hubby gains weight(wish he does gain ) because we don't basis our love on something we see. Anyway i just hope that more men would not be saying that they only like or love their wife because of sexy figure. Love should not be bound and limited. Happy Mylotting!