i always afraid someone stand back of me

there's NO way anyone could get behind me in my room

No don't get afraid whe I'm writing in Mylot but at some other times I do. I get so afraid when I'm walking or driving and it seams that someone is fallowing me. Some times I will go a different direction to se if that person is really following me. What happens to me hear in Mylot or when I'm on the computer is that I get anoid when anybody comes up trying to see what I'm writing. It's not nice because they don't know or care if it might be that you are writing something personal that you don't want them to know.

I would not care, but I did use to feel insecure enough to place my chair with its back against the wall. When I went out to dine, I would arrange to be in a corner so nobody could sneak up on me. I learned this came from my brothers and others sneaking up behind me and scaring me so I fainted when I was small. Once I realized this I dealt with it and no longer feel as if someone is behind me.

That's exactly what I want to share with other mylotters. I too feel that way. When I was a beginner in mylot, I don't know much about the rules and guidelines. So, I started discussions without bothering about the topic and its after effects. Later, I went through many problems like earnings drop down, negative rating etc. Then I realized that mylot is taking great care to ensure the posting of quality content by each and every mylot user. That's a great feature of mylot unlike other sites. In my opinion, that's a very good idea to guide the people in right way. I always keep posting quality and useful content in mylot.

I don't quite understand. Do you mean real people behind you ? or in virtual world people ?

No I don't have anything to hide when I'm writing hear at Mylot. And also I need help most of the time with something because I don't know how to work a computer or the internet. I'm learning and if I learn I might get my own computer to be able to be on the computer more often.

I do not like it when my husband reads over my shoulder when I am writing anything on the computer. Not exactly nervous, but irritated is more what I feel. He corrects my grammar and spelling.