Would you forgive someone who had betryed you?

China
May 23, 2009 2:07am CST
For me, I think it is difficult to trust someone who had betrayed. If someone promised, he must follow his promise. Once he betrayed, I think it is unforgivable. How about you, friends? If some one had betrayed you, will you forgive her or him? Thanks for your sharing.
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@xannebull (1793)
• Philippines
23 May 09
i had friends before who betrayed me, and it hurts me a lot since they do not ask for forgiveness, it seems that nothing's just happened. so my way of reaching them out was now different from before because i don't trust them anymore, nor i don't try contacting them, they're not friends whose worth keeping for.
• China
24 May 09
Hi, if they ask for forgiveness now, can you firgive them and becaome friends again?
@geniustiger (1694)
• Philippines
23 May 09
I will forgive him until such time I already say the truth about what she/he does with me. It is not easy to forgive but I can .If she did something to me, I will nevr forget what she/he done to me and I will be vigilant next for her/him. I will forgive him/her but I will not trust her/ him again, Im afraid she /he will do more for me.
• Philippines
23 May 09
Yeah its one of the things you hardly could forgive a person doing that, betrayal is the most hurtful thing a person do to you. I would be hypocrite to say that I could easily forgive and forgive someone if they have done such act to me as well. Perhaps forgiveness might come through but maybe it takes a long while before things mend and to contribute such a thing is to distant from that person.