Still dreaming about him or her?
By Citychic
@Citychic (4067)
United States
May 23, 2009 2:27am CST
Hey mylottters, Just wondering if you all still have dreams about some of ur ex's. If so what do you think it means. If you'd like to share your dreams about your ex's feel free to share. I still dream about mine and now I'm starting to wonder if I should try to look him up? I'm curious to know if he's still alive or not. As he was quite a few years older than I was. Also I want to know if he got happily married and if he settled down and had kids. I just want to know all of these things about him, don't ask me why but he and I were very close
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@janet8893 (283)
• China
23 May 09
HI,Citychic, i also have the same feeling with you. Although i'm now in relation with my boyfriend and i love him. But sometimes i would dream about my ex. I know it's not because of love, Maybe it's just a kind of curious or care. At least we were in love before, and we may want to know if he find another girlfriend, whether she is better than you.
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@Citychic (4067)
• United States
24 May 09
Hello Janet, thanks for your response. It's true that I'm curious if he found another girl.Idk if he even bothered to marry or not. As I said he as a few years older than me so he might not even still be alive anymore. These are the questions that make me very curious about him. He as a great person and he was someone that almost everybody looked up to. He was very good to me but then again he wasn't perfect. I guess I became disillusioned when I found out that he wasn't perfect. With one of my old b.f. I contacted him b/c I wanted to know what was happening in his life and although he is married, he still wants to maintain a friendship. His wife doesn't have a problem with it so he and I are still friends today. With my older bf I would just like to know if things are going well with him? In other words is he happily married, involved or single. I don't think it would hurt to contact your old bf but if the one that you're in love with now is making you happy. You probably don't feel like you need the friendship of your old love any longer, right? Anyhow you know how things can get when you're just thinking back over your life and you wonder sometimes if you've made the right decision for yourself. Thanks for replying. It's been nice talking with you about this.
