Love... In or Out?

United States
May 24, 2009 2:35am CST
Its not easy to know when you are in love... and there are always people that love to tell you about the wonderfulness of love and being in love, but how do you know if you have fallen out of love. How do you know the difference between being used to the and loving them... When can you say that you just don't love that person anymore... When missing them being gone is more then just loneliness creeping in? How do you know its time to move on?
2 responses
@iamnumbed (164)
• Philippines
24 May 09
This may sound cheesy but I just know that I am in love with the person if I can't take it when I am not with her - when every second of her absence feels like months or even years. I don't think our brains can ever translate how it feels to be in love. I've been in a few relationships that did not work - I knew I had to move on when my life suffered. It was hard but there will come a point wherein you too will get tired of crying and moping and would realize it's time for you to get up on your feet and walk away from the drama and start over.
@meyows (438)
• India
16 Jul 09
Yes, it leads to a great confusion, some times we likely feel that we are in, sometimes it becomes a question mark. Depends upon the partner's behaviour.