why does it hurts so much, when you lost the one you love?

Yes, you're right. It's just that it really hurts when you lost the one you love and you can't help to avoid it. But there's one thing that is for sure, the pain is temporary, we just don't know when it will be gone. The deeper the heartaches i think the longer it will go. Have you experience losing someone you love? How did you go over it?

Yes, I lost someone that I love once. In fact I let him go because I know our relationship will not make it. It took me about less than 2 years to completely get over him. The moment I let him go, I cried, regretted it and cried again and again til my eyes sore. But as times goes by I just get tired of thinking about him coz its not worth it. So I just move on and years after that I found someone new which is great. lol..

Congratulations for overcoming the pain of being brokenhearted. It's really hard to go over it, in fact some people tried to end their lives because they don't know how to handle such pain. It's really painful isn't? More pain in the beginning but as time goes by little by little pain goes out with the help of your relatives, friends, classmates, teachers, and most especially oneself. No matter how large number of people helps us, it's useless if we ourselves doesn't put an effort to help oneself. And let's not forget our God above.Through prayer, we can communicate with him, his just prayer away, and what's good news in it, IT'S FOR FREE.

I agree with your opinion. It's just that, the pain is unstoppable, you can't help it, but undergo with the process of being hurt. This is another kind of natural thing that everybody i think have to experience to learn, to grow and be matured enough to face this huge world. Have you been in this moment of being hurt? If you do, how did you manage it?