What irritates you the most?

@Maryam27 (411)
Pakistan
May 24, 2009 1:53pm CST
What is the one thing that your spouse/lover/partner do that you can't deal with or which irritates you the most. And you wish he/she shouldn't do that again? And what you do then?
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5 responses
@amiee32 (30)
• United States
25 May 09
The thing that makes me mad is when he disappears for a few days with no contact with me to let me know where he is or that he is even ok,and then comes back and trys to act like nothing is wrong and that I shouldn't be mad about the whole thing. This drives me nuts and makes me so mad.
@glesil_00 (1142)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
We feel the same. Its irritating that you are expecting an explanation then you received none. The time you are not talking you are worrying thinking about him but in return he do not care of it.
@Maryam27 (411)
• Pakistan
19 Jun 09
Hmmm yes you are right buddy.
@Maryam27 (411)
• Pakistan
25 May 09
Well that's very irresponsible of him amiee, I am sorry to say that but the truth is he shouldn't be doing that to you if he cares for you. I also get pissed of if he do that, but luckily he haven't done that unless there is some serious problem in the family or something else. Otherwise I won't tolerate it again and again. (If he weren't that responsible)
• United States
21 Jun 09
I would like for them to check the checkbook before going shopping. Sometimes we do have bills that need to be paid and I like a cushion. They want to spend without concern ... and as you know that could lead to trouble. Fiscal responsibility is what I want.
@Maryam27 (411)
• Pakistan
28 Jun 09
Okay, thanks for your reply :-)
@bhanusb (5709)
• India
26 May 09
When something I definitely know that this is right or correct, but my wife does not ready to accept my point I become irritate.I wish she should not do that again.But again and again it happens.
@Maryam27 (411)
• Pakistan
27 May 09
Oh... then have you tried convincing her by telling her your points in a milder tone and explaining your thinking about that particular thing to her? :)
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
24 May 09
I am most iritated when somebody try to lie to me..this make me crazy, and when he think that i am more stupid i am in normal way. when he lie to me i will be just close, and never trust again.... and he will tell me"i love you, you are my life"...and after a while i will see him that he try to make same with other woman...this make me to be "die" for him
@Maryam27 (411)
• Pakistan
25 May 09
Exactly! One shouldn't tolerate this kind of behavior. Kick him out if he is such a jerk! ;) Thank you.
• Tanzania
25 May 09
When she hang up the phone tome,if call her and in the mid of discussion she hangs up the phone for me i become very furious i would call back and ask her why? The second thing is when she is paying any attention when i talk to her and when i tell her to do the right thing she do the things the way she wants.
@Maryam27 (411)
• Pakistan
25 May 09
Well that's certainly annoying and concerning, she should pay attention to you. I wish she understands you better and try to keep you happy :) Thanks for the respond.