would you still talk to someone who let you down?
@friendship4lyfe (520)
Saint Lucia
May 24, 2009 3:12pm CST
Yesterday i left home to meet a friend(someone special)who has been begging me to come see him.I arrive late but we still had like five hours together.We started out happy and content then he has to go and play football.I was so pissed(and still is) because i wanted to spend more time with him.He showered and left me there hanging.Would you still talk to him?Would you forgive him?
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5 responses
@mama_bear (1118)
• Canada
24 May 09
okay i hate to break it to you but the way that i see it this person has done nothing wrong except have other plans and let us remember that you did arrive late for your date. you have not really been left hanging another committment came up. my advice to you is to make another date for the future when that person is not doing anything else. also let them know that this is what you want as you would like to spend more time with them. people are not mind readers especially men. you have to articulate what you want or else people will have not idea of your desires. so give it another chance before you throw in the towel it is only fair. you should also bear in mind that no one likes a clingy person and if you are sensitive about being left behind for a good reason, then you need to re-examine whether you are a clingy person or not, and if not you need to figure out why you were so upset about something so innocuous.
@friendship4lyfe (520)
• Saint Lucia
24 May 09
thanks for your response.i am no clingy person its just that he knew in advance and didnt say anything to me for fear of i changing my mind.i will take you advice and set another date.thanks,god blessings.
@mama_bear (1118)
• Canada
27 May 09
no problem men can be silly creatures who do not know what they want.
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
15 Jun 09
yah i would talk to him... don't hold grudges to anybody or else you'll be in the only one who'll suffer that emotion. try to be very vocal on him so that he can be able to be aware that you don't like the way he treats at that moment. so that he won't do it again and he if he does then that's the time you try to limit yourself being with him because when he tries to ignore the things that you've been telling, it's a way of showing disrespect.
@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
25 May 09
hi there friend.. i think it's better to give him space.. i mean, just give him time to think that he still need you as a friend.. yes, you can still talk to him but not like before, it's just i think for me, i would have that the same trust to him because of his attitude.. you can still be friends but theres already a gap between you and him.. take care always and goodluck.. God Bless
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
27 May 09
Yes, I would. It sounds as if maybe you were late and maybe he didn't realize you were going to show so he made other plans?? Or maybe he already had these plans in place? I'm not sure that I understood you right here....did you have 5 hours with him or did you just hope to? It does sound like just a bad day...misunderstanding....I'd forgive.
@Maryam27 (411)
• Pakistan
25 May 09
Well I don't think he let you down as he welcomed you and gave you some good 5 HOURS! Isn't that enough? Wouldn't you get up yourself if you sensed or saw that he was leaving for somewhere. It was just a meeting/date so why were you even thinking of sticking there for the whole day?
I am sorry to say but it seems like your fault, not his.
As for your question that "would you still talk to someone who let you down?" Well if someone actually let me down than I won't ever give him/her any second chance to do that. And yes I ignore them completely.
