My Night Out...Yeeee Haaaa
By hoghoney
@hoghoney (3747)
United States
May 24, 2009 6:27pm CST
Ok friends I said I would update you all on how I am doing...Well I started my new job last week..it is at a motel doing housekeeping. I took that job because it would give me my nights free it is all day work and I am home by 2pm...I get my first paycheck this coming Friday and I cant wait..once I get it I can then go and get the place I am looking at to move to...I am so happy.
Now the good side of life. The place I am working at is a new motel Hampton Inn and it is still under construction and will open in July..but in the mean time we have all these great looking guys running around building it...and yes I hooked myself up with one of them last Tuesday and had me some major fun for once...we met up after he got off work and he is staying is one of the sister motels there...and we spent some time talking about things and then we kicked back together in a hot tub and then you all know where things went from there...I was a bad girl...hehe. But I really had a great time and alot of fun.
I have learned after what my ex boyfriend did to me that I was really missing something in that relatetionship and what I figured out was just plain closeness...Last Tuesday night I found out that I just miss really being close to someone and being treated like a lady and not just someone that was a wham bam kind of thing...it was really nice and even if I dont never seen this guy again that is ok with me also...it was just one beautiful night of passion that was all about me and not just the guy.
So things are going great right now and hope to be back in full swing soon with my new life going good.
Love to all my friends and for all your support..you are all like family to me.
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6 responses
@friendship4lyfe (520)
• Saint Lucia
25 May 09
Well i am happy for you.Its good to know that there are people who understand life like me.When life throw you a melon once dont make a habit of that.Try to get more oranges even when those oranges are not the right ones.
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@hoghoney (3747)
• United States
25 May 09
Thank you hun...and yes I understand how life can throw things at us...this is my third time being kicked down..if ya seen my other discussion about my ex...but I dont let it kick me down and my life will go on in full swing..there is love out there somewhere for me again and I dont plan on letting it past me by.
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@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
25 May 09
Great story hoghoney. As far as I'm concerned, one night stands are great moral boosters, as yours proved. Maybe you will have more fun with that gentleman, who knows? My philosophy is enjoy each day as it happens, but still try to plan something to look forward to in life.
@hoghoney (3747)
• United States
25 May 09
hey hun..how ya doing..yes I have plans to come in my life right now most of the men I will meet or go out with will only be like you say moral boosters and as I call them heart menders...god will send some my way to mend me for what life sends my way....XXOO
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@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
25 May 09
Hey hoghoney, I had my heart broken several times wnen I was younger, and probably broke a few myself, but for the past twelve years I have been living hapily wirth Mrs. Right. One still gets tempted, but I know this relationship is for real, so I'm able to knock back the temptation. Having told you all this, another factor is I'm getting too old to flirt. Lol.
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@Darkwing (21583)
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30 May 09
I'm so glad things have taken a turn for the better in your life, my friend. Your ex never realised what he had until it was gone. Well tuff on him! If he'd given you the "lady" treatment, been a bit more romantic and not grouched about how hard only he was working all the time... not to mention, listen to his Mum... then, he would probably still have had you there.
As it is, you've found your freedom again, coupled with some independence and the ability to let your hair down and have some fun from time to time. Good on you! You've moved on well from a bad situation, to my mind.
Brightest Blessings, my dear friend. x
@hoghoney (3747)
• United States
31 May 09
Thank you for the kind words..you always add cheer anytime I really need it...Yea I learned a long time ago that I will go on no matter what...but I do have a friend that me and him have been doing alot of talking the past month and things are kind of going great and I am not sure where we are going with them but I have a saying that I like and keep it in my mind..
(Love has its ups and downs, its twists and turns. Love leaves you pain, teaches you until you learn and even if love takes so long, it always takes you to where you belong.)
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@royal52gens (5488)
• United States
25 May 09
That is wonderful. You deserve to have a good time. You go, girl!! It is time you did something nice for yourself. I am so proud of you.
It is hard to step out and start dating again. It takes a lot of courage. You are strong and you can do this. I hope you will continue to enjoy the company of others. It is just so wonderful to "hear" the joy in your posting.
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@hoghoney (3747)
• United States
25 May 09
Oh hun I dont have a problem stepping out and dating that is the whole fun of things...I am kind of a wild child...hehe...dont let things get me down...right now I think I am just going to go with the flow of things and not really look for someone as in a long term...but just have fun in life...I figured that since I was 18 years old I have always been with someone and living life for them...I got married when I was 20 had my kids then got divoiced and then not even a year later got married again when I was 30 and then after that break up I met my ex boyfriend and for the last 5 years living with him and now after how he did me on our break up I figured it is time for me to live and have fun and do what I want to do and not what someone else what's me to or I think I have to do...you know what I mean...so right now I am just having fun and if someone asks me if I want to go out well then I am going and if things kind of happen or not it is just fun for now...Great to hear from you hun....XXOO
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@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
25 May 09
Well hoghoney, looks as though you are enjoying life and so you should! It seems to me that you deserve good things. Congratulations on your new job, I bet you feel great earning your own money. Housekeeping at a motel sounds OK too! And what about your night of passion? You naughty girl, you! Talking, hot tub...Uhmmm...sounds like a lot of fun to me! Things are going good with you and as far as someone special, he is probably not that far away and you stand a much better chance of getting together with him if you're happy with your own life, besides Mr Right may be closer than you think! Good luck to you, hon, keep having fun, you deserve it!
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@hoghoney (3747)
• United States
25 May 09
Yea Mr Right is out there somewhere...but this guy here I might never see again or hear from or he just might call me sometime he has my number...it would be nice to see him again but if not then so be it I had a great time with him and that is what counts...and yes I am very happy with my life and only better things to come.
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@AngryKittyMSV (4317)
• United States
27 May 09
I am really proud of you, for taking control of your life and getting that new job! I'm also really happy that you are having some fun and I'm glad that you "got some" (wink wink).
Speaking of "one night stands" I had one almost ten years ago, but it ended up being the love of my life, we're still together and are now married (to eachother LOL) with two kids and I'm living a happy life.
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@hoghoney (3747)
• United States
27 May 09
well my last one night stand before this one was when I met my ex boyfriend and lasted 5 years...that is why I am not really looking for anyone right now then for just a few romps and some fun...maybe later look for someone to spend longer time with...Great to hear from you hun.
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@hoghoney (3747)
• United States
28 May 09
Oh I love myself and know who I am no man can take that from me..that is why it was so easy to walk away from this..I know what I want in a relationship and I know that he would never be able to give me that...he like I said in 5 years he never told me that he loved me...there is someone out there that will return the love I give to them..but I am not in no hurry to move another man in with me that is for sure...and as all you here that know me I am a strong woman and god will send me someone even more special then my ex...I have a friend that is on a different site then here that we have been getting to know each other better and maybe some day he just might be what god had planed for me...will keep you updated on things with that one..lol...Love ya GF
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@AngryKittyMSV (4317)
• United States
27 May 09
You are definitely going to be better off if you don't get right into another relationship right away, this is YOUR TIME, and it should be all about YOU. Get to know yourself again, think about what you like to do and what sort of crap you'll never put up with again, love being who you are and when the time is right you will be loved for being exactly who you are, as is. Enjoy your freedom, you've earned it!
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