Wrong Spouse?

@utiwow (13)
Indonesia
May 24, 2009 11:54pm CST
Have you ever thinking that you have choosen the wrong partner for your life?
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@queennee (186)
• Philippines
25 May 09
hello,i never reach into the point of thinking that i choose the wrong partner.differences between two different people is normal.i love my husband a lot and i accept his shortcomings and negatives side.we always see to it that conflicts be ressolve immediately to avoid negative thoughts and feelings...good day! :)
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@mizcash (685)
• Canada
25 May 09
|I have thought about it but, then I remember how my husband has been to me and I hurrily dismiss that that thought.
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• India
29 May 09
Its not really possible to say until and unless you have married innumerable times. The grass always does look greener on the other side and nobody is perfect…we see so many flaws in our spouses and think that may somebody’s husband is so much more caring or somebody’s wife is so cool on all matters, but until and unless you actually live with that person, you wouldn’t really know for sure if you have married the wrong person. But sometimes yes, people feel like that if the differences are stifling…like say a music lover married to a person who just cant stand any music or an artist married to a person who has no interest in art.
@dodo19 (47315)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
28 May 09
I really don't think that I have. I really do believe that I have chosen the right partner for my life. Some people may think that I have, but I really don't. It really would take a lot for me to believe that my fiance is the wrong guy for me, and I mean a LOT. He's one of the best things has ever happened to me, if he's not THE best thing.
@eltobh (231)
• Indonesia
2 Jun 09
Hi utiwow, I never think that I have chosen the wrong partner for my life. But there were many times that I do wish my partner is more this or that, especially after we quarrel :))
@postlover (191)
• China
1 Jun 09
I had ever thought of such question, even after quarreling with each other. frankly, I feel happy to live with my partner. so why I still have such thinking? It means life is too boring or too hard. Don't consider your partener is right or wrong, please think well why do you have such feeling? Do some changes in your life, you will be happy again.
@schulzie (4061)
• United States
26 May 09
Honestly, I don't think so. My husband is great. I wish I would have met him earlier actually. Have a great day and happy myLotting!!!