Marriage your lover not give 100% happy in life.......

I don't think that most people get married when they are ready for it. If they were ready then they'd more likely stay happy. But even so, all relationships have their problems. Two perfect people will never get married to each other and live life without ever having a problem. This is normal for relationships and a problem will not end it. Those relationships can live on.

Nothing is perfect; neither does love nor marriage. Nobody is perfect; neither does your lover or spouse. But it does not necessarily mean that we don't look for true love and happy relations or even marriage. Reality can be cruel sometimes but that does stop our steps to strive for something better. You should have faith is true love and make efforts to make your relations as pleasant as possible if that is where it starts. Good luck to you and your love.

Yes friend It is a fact that after marriage few days are very nice of their relationship as they are in heaven and thus this time is called honeymoon as they were on the moon of dreams. when actual life starts after this periods they find them self in difficulties As they have to meet expectation's of each other and also to take care expectation's of peoples around them. As you said life is not a movie where every thing is good, real life is full of close family members and priority to onew one is not at all accepted by others easily. Secondly one cannot get changed in a day and cannot change oneself for whole life though it ok for short time at the begining of married life. Than after sometimes every one starts living in earlier way which may not suit to the other partner and than ego and their family traditions start creating lot of misunderstanding and tension. best is to be calm and observe the situation and do not give give place to ego and tension in relationship.

It's not the matter of love or arranged marriage. It's the matter of understanding. If understanding is their Both love as well as arranged marriage will survive.

You are right life is not like a movie that is why we have to know the person whom we love for atleast 5 years to be able to understand each other. Love is intelligent when two people are willing to understand, love is naive when two people are madly in love and supporting each other, It is definitely not a movie as movies are fake but life is the truth. Love marriage will end if the couple are not willing to continue with the feelings before marriage and Love marriage will be a success of both person will be keen to continue living the wonderful moments.

Love alone cannot hold a relationship stay longer, it needs efforts, understanding, patience and honesty. Communication is the best tools to bond a loving everlasting relationships. True, life is not like the movie even though we wish it would. lol. But it is nice to have a dream and chase that dream with your love one. It takes both sides to stand a marriage.

Yes indeed as you like! I think that is the attitude towards life because of the different families you are from. Marriage is actual thing and face to face with some physical affairs. I think just because of thinking more, more collision taken place. I think the point now is how should we handle this conditions. The fact is that we have realize the truth and reasons, so which is a good way to release these side-afffects??? In my opinion, to refresh the environment between each other. Everyone has an idea that after marriage romantic is no use and not practical. While I think that is more important. Which can enhence the raltaion between the wife and husband. That is the refresh element, because girls are easily to be moved!!! What are your ideas???

Yes,i agree with you.Sometimes,people who married with no love also get a happy life.Love cannot give us guarantee.Young people also think love is everything and when they married without prepare for everything because they think love will cover it,they will awake and know love is nothing.

Yes,real life is realy not same as what we imagine.There are so many difficulties we must face to.But for me it is important to imagine how me life will be.It can give me the hope to have a hard word to achieve it.

this is person, Chinese said that poor spouse will not happy everything but once you have enough money,you will thinking other things...so have the 3nd person in your life or Adonis..... But I don't agree swith you.Because we have enough eg for old spouse,they take care each other for a long long time.We advire them...

I think otherwise. I prefer love marriage & it will be more successful than arranged marriage. Today's generation believe in "knowing the person who they want to marry very well before their marriage". What if you had a arranged marriage and you find out that your partner has all the bad habits and both of you have different interests and opinions. Then it will be a living hell.