Do you go for someone younger or older then you?

I am married and my husband is two years younger than me. Before I got married though age wasn't an issue for me. I didn't go for someone based on their age. I would date someone based on their qualities and whether they were a good person for me. And following your heart in something like this is a good thing, at least I think so.

Hi! i am more comfortable to go with the person who is older than me whether it is only for friendship or to have a serious relation. But it doesn't mean that i cant be with anyone who is younger than me, for as long as he knows his responsibilities and one more important is he know how to respect elders and opinion of other people.

I go for someone older. Or I should say that I have. My husband is 8+ years my senior. For some reason I've always been attracted to older guys, so long as they aren't too much older. I'm not looking for a father figure, after all! LOL Though, you're right, age shouldn't matter. All that matters is the love a couple has for each other.

Hello n30wing, I agree with you though I think that the best age gap is supposed to be around 5 years and not more than 10 years. Anyway, age difference is not a big deal for me; as long as both of us have the same feelings toward each other. In fact, my husband is a few years younger than me.

I'm 3 and 1/2 years older than my husband we got married when he was 18 and I was 21. It didn't bother me and it still doesn't bother me. He was more mature than most of the guys that were and are my age. We get a long really well. To me age is just a number and love doesn't see numbers.

i don't know, seriously. for me it doesn't matter how old or young your partner is, as far as i am concerned maturity comes a lot, it's the most important thing for me to consider. i can't stand a person that is too immature to their age. a 25 year old woman should act according to age on every aspect in life, but it's still alright to be childish sometimes as long as it's not irritating. i have i have dated woman older and younger than me and like i said maturity is very vital.

for myself i all ways go for the older gentlemen ,they are more polite,considerate and refined,for the one my age acts like kids.but love counts,

I agree that it is the connection you have not the age. when I was a teen , thought the ideal mate was a lot older but now I don't care what age as long as we connect , that we share the same amount of feelings.

hiya, this doesn't bothers me at all. i was looking for 2 years older than me but when i found my husband, we have this 15 years gap and there is no problem with it. maybe for me, so long as the guy is older than the woman than it is okay. matured people are good lover and good provider.

Basically I think age is just a number also and I don't think it matters if the man or woman is older in the relationship or if they are the same age, it shouldn't really matter as long as there is not a tremendous difference in their age. I think as long as they are somewhere in the same ballpark where they can have some of the same things in common and know what each other is talking about then things should work out fine. Now when you get some 16 year old marrying a 60 year old then I think there is definitely something wrong because they can not have much in common unless the 60 year old is a bit slow mentally!!

I'll go for older than me LoL Well for age does really matter hehehe ^^ I just can't accept those younger than me

yes i think like you, but now i just have a girl friend more young from me

hi there, yes indeed love has no boundaries and it knows not any boundaries. well as for me age is just a number, age should not and never stop anyone from falling in love at all. well you are absolutely right it is all about working the relationship right. apart from age i also strongly believe that nothing else should be a hinderance at all, this includes race, culture, language. well these a are just a few examples. but in my opinion whether or not age or other boundaries should never come in between love at all. we should all look beyond these things love someone for who they are and not what they are. Have a great day ahead. best regards, alvingb

For me I care about the age of my lover, maybe I am a traditional person. I like to make friend younger than me, the more younger, the more I like. Hehe...

Love is something to be shared. There is no barrier of age , religion or something like that. Just love your partner and you will definitely get back your love

I can't see age as a problem in a relationship, as long as both partners are of mature and legal age. - Derek

As long as both people are of legal age and generally around the same level in finances, spirituality, education, social standing, etc., things usually work out. Not that it's a requirement for you to be at the same level in the aforementioned areas, it's just usually easier that way. But I'm 22 and the man I'm seeing is 42 - we've been working out fine for a while now.

I have always gone for teh older type. In fact I somehow ended up dating a twenty four year old freshman year of college somehow. I like them older because they are more likely to be more mature and logical about dating and relationships. I have found though that is not often teh case. Age has little to do with it and now I am dating someone who is my own age-the youngest age I have ever dated-and I am the first girl he has ever dated that was not at leat a year younger than him. We have discivered, for us age is a good thing to have in common. I appreciate his immaturity in ways my friends can't, and he has actually found out it's not so bad dating a "old woman" even though we are only two months apart.

yep,your absolutely right,age doesnt matter nowadays :) as long as love is within the both of you.that's what more important than age.some would say that if you have big age gap,there would be a tendency that couples argue often and misunderstanding arises,but if we really love the person regardless of the age gap,arguments and misunderstanding has no room :)we just simply understand and accept each other's shortcomings. :) good day!

I'm married with my hubby that 3 years younger than me. I really never thought to have a younger husband, but what can I ask more if he is the "one"? Love is no. 1 for me, and most of all is his responsibility for everything. That's made him different with the others and that's all I need from a husband.