Many Relationships But Few Marriages!

In our era, people tend to chase their dreams. Era before us not getting much opportunities, especially women. Nowadays, so many good things that people wants in their life and when they get what they want they tend to want more. Most people don't appreciate what they already had. If it's gone then too late to be regret. Same thing with marriage. For example, you get married, being happily for 1-10 years, when you find someone you thought is better, you ignore the one you got. Sadly, it becoming a trend to celebrities and most people.

I think the answer to that is that times have changed now a days its not really required for couples to get married I think that you can do essentialy the same things that you can do while married while your not married I have been in a relationship of nine years and I have three kids and I dont see why I should be married its just a simple piece of paper but everyone is entitle to their own opinion that is just mine Im sure that some time in the near future we will take that great step and that will be great but ther is no hurry we are not going anywhere

Before the 1960's there was a stigma to being divorced in the U.S. and living together was definitely frowned upon. Then the baby boomers came of age and we did things our way. We lived together...we formed communes where many people lived together and, if we got married and found ourselves to be miserable, we got divorced. No fault divorces became available in many states meaning that you didn't need specific grounds, like abuse or infidelity, so leaving a marriage was easier. These days you don't even need to hire an attorney in most cases in order to get a divorce. As with anything else in life, the more something happens, the more acceptable it becomes. The sad thing is that I know many couples from the past who probably could have worked out their marital problems if society had expected them to stay together and try hard.

Yes, that is true. many young people now wants to enjoy their life as well as very selfish already. And they are very modern in terms of living. I myself don't have a boyfriend yet nor dating because i noticed that many guys just want to have partner and not ready to commit but just want to have relationship due to afraid of lonely. I am very practical and stay to be a conservative ways because i love the early tradition and can help us successful in marriage. usually is commitment,sacrifice, discipline, and responsibility. Just do what you can and protect the family. Outside the family should not be affected your relationship.

All I can say in todays' genre of getting married is that its the issue of having a grand celebration to offer for those who are being into this situation. Most of relationships are still there up and burning with out the hesitation of getting married due to some financial aspects. In my place lots of people have been announced husband and wife by virtue of civil marriage but not yet with the church of their choice. Thus impending the cost of getting married with grand celebration. The practicality thinking has evolved much of today's way of marriage so we often tend to say they are not yet married but in due to civil wedding its legal.