Would you share your partners toothbrush?

United States
May 25, 2009 11:56am CST
I didn't mean to but the other day I grabbed a toothbrush out of the cabinet and it was my bf's. I keep it in the same spot everyday but I guess I reached too far out as I have done this on the fly before. It wasn't as disgusting as I would of imagined so I just washed it off under really hot water and stuck it back in, starting over with mine. Hey, we swap spit kissing anyway--or used to, lol. Maybe theres people who DO share toothbrushes, do you? I imagine you take what you can get in some countries, no? Have you did this by accident before? I never told my bf I used his brush and figured what he doesn't know can't hurt him.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
25 May 09
I think I have once or twice because I forgot my own toothbrush, of course this was before we started living together. Now I don't mind if my toothbrush says gets dirty and I need to throw it away, I might use my fiance's. I have in the past. I know people say "ew germs" but really I don't think it's much different then what some couples do anyway!
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• United States
25 May 09
lol, thats so true!!
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• United States
25 May 09
yea, country folk don't sweat about the small stuff, lol! its hard, because I came from the country and my boyfriend from the city and some stuff he whines about really doesn't seem that big a deal to me and I tell him to calm down
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
25 May 09
I think something that might catch others attentions as well as yours is that my fiance was dipping at the time. It's different from smoking because you can get the dip in your teeth. Lol, here I am trying to sound all big, I did kiss him and use his toothbrush but I guess it just didn't bother me at all. It might be that grew up around it anyway.
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@pickoy (733)
• Philippines
26 May 09
Lol, no way, that's personal hygiene and its very important to use our own stuff when it comes to this. Kissing is different, brushing is different too... In our home we see to it that all the toothbrushes come in different colors and shape so no switching will ever happen. Suppose you're bf has tonsilitis, you'll definitely catch it if you used his brush during that time. There are also rare cases that you'll have heart ailment for this, the infective endocarditis are related to dental procedures like brushing and dental cleaning... I had it, but I have congenital heart disease so when I have undergone dental cleaning last 2004, it kind of triggered the endocarditis and then I had open heart surgery, they replaced my mitral valve with metal... Dental hygiene is really important and it should be kept personal.
@smacksman (6053)
26 May 09
When I go down on my wife I get to do some flossing too and it certainly gets my heart pumping. I never realised the danger I was in. Thanks.
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• United States
26 May 09
oh yea i heard that. I heard that flossing is really important and I guess certain heart ailments cant be linked to non-flossing, correct me if im wrong..
@jstmarfz (1498)
• United States
26 May 09
Hello! My husband and I use same toothbrush sometimes. He was the one there's nothing wrong with it. Besides you will wash it after using it. that's what he said. At first, I felt uncomfortable but he was the one who said that it is not a big of a deal. It was fine with me then. So, if I am taking a shower and feel like brushing my teeth while taking a shower I use his because he usually brush his teeth while taking a shower. And he use mine too sometimes. I don't find it gross because we both shared about everything
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• United States
26 May 09
i wont say anything if you dont!
@jstmarfz (1498)
• United States
26 May 09
hahaha..oh sorry! not everything..what I mean most of the things..lol oh whatever!
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
26 May 09
hahahahaa i had the same experience, i was like rushing one day and i accidentally grabbed my husband's toothbrush!! lol and i thought he would not notice, but he did lol because it was wet and i confessed on using it accidentally! lol
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• United States
26 May 09
did he keep his toothbrush?
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
27 May 09
yes he did lol. just a few days and when we went to the grocery, he purchased a new one!l ol
• Philippines
26 May 09
no were not sharing toothbrush to my partner because I have toothbrush and he had toothbrush too..
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• United States
26 May 09
what if by accident you did?
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• Philippines
26 May 09
if by accident I did!I will tell him that I use his toothbrush.
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@wendywhy (64)
• United States
26 May 09
I was considering using my husbands toothbrush once after we had been married for a few years. He was really angry that I would even consider it. I didn't understand why. We kissed, we even had a baby so obviously we'd swapped more than just saliva but he still thought it was gross. Ironically, I began to notice that he wasn't as vigilant with his oral hygiene as I am. Who knows how many dentist visits I've saved myself?
• United States
26 May 09
oh my, keeping on hubby to brush his teeth--thats a chore!
• United States
26 May 09
I constantly nag him
@smacksman (6053)
26 May 09
Not a problem for me/us. When we are kissing I think my tongue goes to pretty much the same places as her toothbrush! haha And when I go down on her, my tongue is exploring places her tooth brush never goes! haha
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• United States
26 May 09
high-five!
• Philippines
26 May 09
I haven't done that in my life though I caught my brother using my toothbrush twice! I change my toothbrush that time, I was still younger during those times. I think there is nothing wrong if my bf will accidentally use my toothbrush since we love kissing each other. I even kept one of his used toothbrush as my souvenir
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• United States
26 May 09
your souvenir, thats so funny!
@psyche49f (2502)
• Philippines
25 May 09
Perhaps, but not intentionally...I'll never share toothbrushes with anyone, not even with my husband. It's NOT sanitary, and I guess those who know better agree with me, although I admit there are times that just like you, I'd accidentally grab my son's or my husband's toothbrush and use it, especially during rush hours. But all of us in the house agree that our toothbrush, comb or even towels is to each his own, for health's sake.
• United States
25 May 09
hmm, alot of people are saying that Im gonna do some research and find out how likely it is to get infection or sick from sharing a toothbrush. I know cuts in the mouth can lead to infection.
• United States
25 May 09
Researchers from the University of Regensburg, in Germany have showed that hepatitis C could be transmitted by toothbrushes. The team examined patients with hepatitis C. 30 per cent of the infected patients tested positive for traces of the virus in their saliva before brushing their teeth, while 38 per cent tested positive in their saliva after brushing. About 40 per cent of the rinsing water used for the toothbrushes in the test tested positive for the virus. http://www.teeth-whitening-smiles.com/21078-toothbrush.html
@chimrani (1426)
• India
26 May 09
i haven't thought about this and i will never do this in my life.how you manage this.Don't you know that you may be effected with diseases. I suggest you to stop using your partner's toothbrush.It is bad for your health
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• United States
26 May 09
whoa, i never said I used my bf toothbrush except one night I grabbed it by accident and didn't realize but I have nothing against those who choose to--the way I think of it is that as long as you thoroughly wash your toothbrush after your done and let it ample time to air-dry, chances are your ok, bacteria harbor in small wet crevices but I would probably pour some peroxide over it when Im sick or he is like my mother used to do. hey, maybe it builds immunity
@Yori88 (1465)
• Philippines
26 May 09
I and my husband do not share toothbrushes. I never want to share because I want that we have our own. He does not want either. We just want to be using our own toothbrush. But if there are situations that we only have one, then maybe we could share just for a day. Then he will buy his own or he will buy two, one for him and one for me. We respect those who share toothbrush but I think it will be easily worn out or tear easily. So better practice proper hygiene and do not share belongings for cleanliness purposes.
• United States
26 May 09
but I read using the kitchen sink harbors far more bacteria then toothbrush, I didn't find a toothbrushes, what do you think?
@tundeemma (894)
• South Africa
26 May 09
i cannot do that though we can have some sessions of kissing but i still can't share a toothbrush with her, what if she has some germs sticked to the brush and then i mistakenly trasnefr those into my mouth, it will be very disgusting, and dental professionals advise that one should put a toothbrush at least 6 feet away from a toilet flush so that particles migrating into the air during a flush will not tsick to the tooth brush
• United States
26 May 09
i know! someone needs to tell the business this--many of these toilets flush waay too hard and I have kids who are closer to it then me, I make them stand outside of the bathroom stall
• India
26 May 09
YUCK! Its really really disgusting.I cant even think about it.I feel like vomiting. Sorry but I cant think of it.Its really beyond me.I cant do it consciously but like you if i do it by mistake then i think there nothing i can do. But kissing is something different.I anyway cant relate both.
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• United States
26 May 09
no problem, thanks for your opinion
25 May 09
The only thing that I can say is this is one of the most disgusting thoughts ever!!!! Do you know all the bacteria on a tooth brush!!! ewwwww!
• United States
25 May 09
no, the kitchen sink The 12 germiest places in your life: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/21423163/page/2/ I think we just feel that way because its a taboo type thing, we don't eat dogs and other cultures do?
• United States
25 May 09
The top three: Kitchen Sink, Airplane Bathrooms, A Load of wet laundry
@justinus (1104)
• Karawaci, Indonesia
26 May 09
Hello young man, even I share toothpicks with friends ! We eat barbeque in one plate sharing and also rice in one palte we took with our hand together we share our juice and sometimes we feed each other and noit strange to me share one toothpick ofter having our lunch, and if I get any peace of fflash with this toothpicker I eat this left behind food at her teeth, it is delicious also, hahahaha so does the same. see that indicate that we love each other truely, thank for your interesting post hahahaha
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@dreamr802 (985)
• United States
26 May 09
I personally don't use my boyfriend's toothbrush. But I do know that people share toothbrushes. I personally wouldn't want anyone else to use my toothbrush. I actually keep a couple of extra cheap toothbrushes around in case I have a visitor that didn't bring their toothbrush with them.
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• United States
26 May 09
thats so nice, I've did that and my friend an extra toothbrushes
@rrdj71 (696)
• United States
25 May 09
Although there is A LOT of saliva interchange between a man and a woman I still feel the toothbrush is a whole different level. Lets say for example, gingivitis is actually contagious and other mouth ailments as well. I would not suggest sharing a toothbrush. To me it's kinda disgusting :)
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• United States
26 May 09
I totally agree. Just think if there are cavaties or sores in the mouth you just transfered all those germs into your mouth. Kissing is one thing but a tooth brush is very personal.
• Philippines
26 May 09
i'd rather use my finger with toothpaste to clean my teeth and gargle with water with salt than use my husband's toothbrush. it's not hygienic.
@Jennlk84 (4206)
• United States
25 May 09
I don't think I could ever use someone else's toothbrush. Just the thoughts of it grosses me out. lol Even if that other person is clean - I don't know, it's just the thought of that being in their mouth, cleaning out all THEIR food, plaque, grime..... haha. Now if I used it and didn't realize it, I probably wouldn't be grossed out until after the fact. You're right though - we do kiss. So what's the difference? haha
• United States
25 May 09
well the brush was dry so I think that helped me get past the grimey thoughts and i probably would of dry-heaved if it was still wet, thats a more visual experience
• India
26 May 09
No, i can never share my toothbrush with anyone........
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