What is it you looking for in a man/woman?

Saint Lucia
May 25, 2009 4:34pm CST
I am looking for honesty,trust,love and a great understanding.He has to be charming and sweet,patient and loving,quiet yet not shy and most inportant he must have a sense of family in him.He should be a hardworking individual.Responsible.a one woman man and wants kids.what about you mylotters?what sre some of the main factors when choosing a guy/girl?
2 people like this
7 responses
@jugsjugs (12967)
25 May 09
The main factors are the same as yours,he must act his age as well as can be a good family man as in take on all responsabilities which would come as a package with me like children.He must be a good lover and a good father and must love me for what and who i am rather than try to change me.
1 person likes this
@gxyywhyzy (450)
• China
27 May 09
well, I'm looking for kindness,honesty.certainly who I'm talking to you is woman.how to choose? I think you have to talk with her about your work and life.while you will be due to know her well through chatting between you and her.
• Philippines
27 May 09
Oh sorry I really don't have a clear vision of what I wanted in a man since it's not my priority now. Maybe as long as he's responsible, God-fearing and he loves me and willing to take all the risks, that would be okay ;) -- http://rightfulliving.blogspot.com
@brando10 (174)
• Philippines
26 May 09
I am looking for love, understanding and trust. These three main factors compose the main importance for me. A lot of factors could be associated with it but things may vary. It all depends also on communication in which things would end up into it's place.
@maezee (41988)
• United States
26 May 09
I don't really have a specific criteria that I'm looking for. Small personality traits & such don't really matter to me - and I try not to hold too high of expectations (as you usually get disappointed if you do). I feel like when I find the right person, I'll know, and they could by shy, outgoing, tall, short, whatever. I think it's most about love, chemistry, & trust.
• Philippines
26 May 09
I look for someone who is understanding,trustworthy,loyal,responsible,and thoughtful.he has to be a loving guy who loves his God and his family.he has to have a great sense of humor and fun to be with.he has to be ambitious and passionate about something in his life.he has to someone who is sincere with his feelings for me.
@italysmom (308)
• United States
25 May 09
I am looking for alot of the same things as you are... he MUST be honest and loving... I have an 8 y r old daughter so he had better be good with children... I also can not have anymore children... so... i would prefer that he already have children... that i can help spoil... i love all kids... they dont have to be mine to love them... He has to work... I have had to many relationships where the man didnt work... isnt going to happen again... as for a one woman man.. he had better be... i have been cheated on way to many times... i would not put up with it... he needs to be gentle.. i have also been with woman beaters... not going to do that either... i left the man that i had my daughter with because he was a beater... and.. i was not going to allow my daughter to grow up watching that.. thinking it was ok for the man to beat the woman... he has to be understanding... i am on disability... as is my mother.. and we both live together.. infact buying our home right now... and there is no seperating us.. not because i am a mommas girl.. which i will admit i am a bit of... but also because neither of us could make it alone on disability.. he needs to be generous.. because i am generous... i help as many people as i possible can... he needs to at least understand this... if not do it himself.. and i would really like it if he would try to spoil me a little bit... lol... looks wise... i hate to admit.. but.. i have to be attracted to him... that being said he doesnt have to be gorgous... and the inside means so much more than the outside... so if he is all of the above.. chances are i would be attracted to him..