Do you delete friends just because they don't reply fast to your topics ?

In my opinion the word 'friend' when used to describe a list of myLotters is an abusive use of the word itself. it is out of context. They become what I consider as friends much later and not as soon as they are added to my list. Once they are added only then can we begin to understand each other and become friends. Then we both understand that there is not enough time to respond to all the discussions that we post and indeed some of them may not even be about topics that we can relate to. I delete those on my list if their profile becomes blank (either because they were banned or they decided to cancel their account) or if there is some misunderstanding between us. I add many, many new users to help them get on their feet here and they stay as long as they stick to the Guidelines regardless of whether they respond to my (few) dicussions or not. Each one of us has their own way of dealing with that list I believe. If someone deletes me they will have their resons which I respect although, as in your case, I may not be receiving notifiers of their posts, so that would seem unfair - but I don't bother about it as it could be their loss

Hello, elitess! Well, I never deleted any of my friends. Once added, they still remain on my friends list even they respond late or they do not respond to my discussions. I understand that they are not online on that time so I just wait no matter how long. I just consider that thing. I know some of my friends haven't been here for a long time maybe because they are busy. Happy mylotting and have a nice day!

Hey elitess,for me,I never delete friends here in mylot after being friends with them`~no matter they don't reply my topics never mentioned fast reply.I think it's normal situation here as each mylotter may have quite a number friends and no body can pleasure everyone~what do you think? At least,I'm the one fast reply to your post

I will not delete a friend if I did not respond to the discussion. we do not know their occupation, they may be busy with work, the connection is not good, or pain until can not open the internet. we must think positive.

no i dont delete just because they dont reply or respond to my topics right away... even in other social network sites, i dont delete right away, only when they havent updated or posted something for a very long time that i delete them. here in mylot, since i am still new i have not yet deleted anybody in my list. but if ever one in my friends' list would bug me about spam, i will not hesitate to delete that user.

once I accept request I rarely delete it.

Personally for me, I cannot understand why people delete someone just because they do not take the time to respond back to all of their discussions. For me, I know myself there are times I am more active in here than others. The only time I delete people from my list is if they have not responded back in here in longer than the 60 days or their link is broken. Otherwise you deserve a chance to still be on my friends list for sure.

I havent really gotten around to that task of deleting friends. Add to that I havent started a discussion for months now I dont delete friends because it would require that much effort and I wouldnt be sure if may be the member has plans to come back after some months. I saw one of my friends do that. I thought she has gone and forgotten the site but when I went through my friends page, I saw that she has a new avatar. Well, that really didnt make her that much more active but at least she came back even to just peep in. I dont start discussions because I want to be involved in them. Comment back on all the responses as best I can at least for the duration of the day that I started that discussion. Too bad I dont have that much time so I think it best to just respond to my friends' discussions. That way I can go back to their comments when I get to log in. Some also dont bother commenting though.

I have a hard time understanding we people add friends on here in the first place. I am sort of new here (havn't wrote much), btu all I ever see on here is people spamming their referral links and just writing stupid comments just to be making money. This site has sent a flood of scammers to my home review site of Ciao.com just because people paste their referrals and people just come and plagiarise and write non-sense reviews almost ruining the site for everyone. We have luckily just implemented a ban on the countries that scam the most. I don't see how having friends on your list can get ou faster replies. I don't even really look at my home page, I go to a subject I am interested in a look from there. 999/1000 people here are scammers just like on all the other sites. I am not tryi9ng to be mean or be a pessimist, it is just how I see it.

No, to be honest I don't keep track as to who responds to my discussions. I do like to receive responses and I do wonder why some of my discussions are not as popular as others but it is irrelevant to me where the responses come from. The way I look at it is; just because somebody befriends me doesn't oblige them to respond to all my topics. We can only give our best to MyLot if we contribute to whatever interests and appeals to us. Out of curiosity, do you receive notification if someone deletes you?

My concern is not only to earn but to have more friends here so I don;t need to delete anyone of them even they are not replied into my discussions. That was too unrealistic reason deleting a friend just because of no reply for the most important is friend rather than any replied. Well there is a reason why they do not reply one is because they are not interested into your topic and sometimes they don't have any idea about the topic. For me if I have a friend online or not I treasure them very much. So i will probably not deleting you friend! Have a nice day!!

No I don't delete my friends for that reason. Truth is I have a very limited friends group and I know each and every one of them very well, (I had an account here before so I have known them for a long time), and know that they are busy with other things in their life the same as I am, so when we do get to each others discussions, we are thrilled to see each other of course and make the best of the little time that we have together.

I haven't deleted any friends so far, and I don't mind if they don't respond to my discussions. I know that quite often it's hard to respond to some discussions for all sorts of reasons. Maybe you have been taken off some lists as people try to keep their friends to a manageable number.

hai there, i never delete friends for that cause. yes i delete if he/she has no activity in mylot. i also delete someone from ,my friend's list if i think he/she is not fit for being my friend. thanks.

No, I don't delete friends for not responding fast. Actually, I'm quite used to friends not responding my discussions at all... I do, however, remove friends that don't post discussions and don't respond discussions either...

I never delete friends from my friends list.I know many of them are not active but still i keep them.Who knows they will one day come back to meet their friends or if they have some spare time.I know some friends who have taken their first payment and left.Some friends over here are just earning through their referrals.Very few of my friends respond to my discussions.Happy mylotting.

Hi. elitess. No. I never delete any of my friends if they have been gone from myLot for too long. What if they may come back someday? I never know what is going on in their life that is outside of myLot. They may really need a friend when they come back. And no, I don't delete any friends that are not fast repliers. MyLot is a very big site and sometimes it is very hard for others to just reply to all of the discussions that are on here at myLot.

I have never deleted a friend. I didn't know U could.

No I don't delete friends just because they did not reply to my discussions, in fact I have so many friends in my list but most of my discussions only have 10 responses but I never complained where are my friends. Maybe they won't like my discussions or they did not feel answering into it, I just respected their choices and opinions.

Hi Elitess, I would never delete a friend off my list just because they did not reply to one of my topics just like I hope they would not delete me from their list. We all have different interests and likes, so sometimes a topic may not appeal to everyone just like friends in real life we don't all like the same things. I always try to reply to my friends discussions as much as possible, but then I only reply to a topic that has caught my eye or one that I feel I can add something to. I tend not to reply to topics that I have no knowledge of though. The only time I have deleted someone from my list is, as others have said, is when they have spammed me with links to their new "get rich quick scheme.