will you still marry him/her after discovering he/she has a dark past???

Past is gone. On past is only the lesson for the future. There will be 2 things on the past. One is good & bad. We have to forget bad things & take good things. The dark past of some doesn't matter but the person should relize and may not have any concern with pasts then it is more better

Yes, I'd still marry a person who has a dark past if they are honest about it and if they have learned from it. It's our experiences from the past that turn us into the people we are today.

this is just one of the petty issues our country has..everybody has a past we all want to bury..this young women are victims..they aren't to be disgraced more like they have epidmic virus..they made mistakes of loving and falling for the wrong supid man..they shouldn't be rejected but instead just forget the issue and let it be burried.

If a guy/girl wouldn't want to marry his/her fiancee then that means he/she doesn't really love her/him. The past is already the past and no one should care about it. People need to accept them and move on.

are you sure that she's a doctor and will be getting married soon? i thought that the doctor was a different girl aside from her. . but anyway, if i were a guy i would still marry her if she did that before our relationship. she's pretty and looks decent. i will give her the chance to explain and if she is really just a victim i will forgve her.

I think we all should forget the past as it may affect our future. Everyone has got a past and we did things which we regret later or which may have severe consequences in the future. But if we let it affect us we may not have a joyful life. If I were MARICAR'S fiancee I would give a damn to the video because I know it is done purposely so that i live her. If the guy in question (who filmed the scene) was really in love with Maricar he should never have done such a thing. their is no reason for Maricar's fiancee to give importance to this guy who just want him to break up with Maricar. And if he breaks up with Maricar then he is a coward and a loser.

Of course that would totally depend on how much does she love the girl involve in the scandal. Sometimes the past is not to be gauged at all when considering marrying a person but how much you love that person. if you cannot stand the past of hers then it would be better that you end the relationship now than be haunted by her past all through your life. On the other hand, if you truly adore and love her and if you could carry on with your normal lives about having that stigma around. I guess you are a better man to take her out of that stigma. If I am in that situation, well I still cannot decide right now because I do not know how it feels to be in that kind of situation.

If I were maricar's fiancee, I would definitely be hurt, so much more if I didn't have any idea that she used to have an affair with hayden. I might need some time to regain my composition and to gather my thoughts. I guess for now, there should not be any decisions to be made. Maricar's fiancee should at least have an idea about all her past before he marries her. Imagine the shock of finding out things like that. He will have to figure out if he loves Maricar enough to be willing to accept everything that happened, including the scandal. Maricar should also understand that it is important for the guy to accept and love her for everything that she is, even her dark past. If he learns or is willing to accept that then their marriage would be a good one. Getting married while keeping secrets from each other is not good. It can destroy the marriage.

I think that I would because the past doesn't really matter but I would appreciate them giving me a warning instead of finding out some other way like this woman you speak of. The truth always comes out in the end so its better to be honest from the beginning. If the person loves you, even after you tell them everything,then you know you were meant to be.

what kind of a dark past ? each person has its own dark past, whether they told it to people or they hid it. i have my own dark past too, but i prefer not to tell him what was it. i know it's not good, coz we have to be honest with our couple actually. it's just that, my dark past wasn't something to talk about it again coz it's already a past and i'm not like that anymore. i decided to change, and yes im different now insyaAllah..it was a dark past and i really dont wanna be like that anymore.. if he has a dark past then insyaAllah i will understand and accept him for who he is. im hoping he will do the same with me if he knew my past.

well, i would like to comment on that even though i'm a woman. if i were a man, that would be a very difficult decision to make. i mean i know it is not her fault to choose to make love to a scumbag but i mean she would take on my family's name. i think we have to wait for sometime to get married. anyway, the people in the reception would only think about the scandal so why get married now?