how to expalin my feeling about love to my fnd ????

India
May 26, 2009 12:35pm CST
hello friends....i hav already said "i love u" to my fnd whom i love too much....but she asked me ,is this phsically attraction ? then i replied no to her n she agreed also with me....she also asked me that is this love b/w two fnds....then i said no.... now i m in trouble ,she is asking me what do u feel about me ? can u tell me how to explain my feelings to her...i hav said to her that i want to remain always with u ....but she asking that if u r not physically attracted then whats this feeling ????why do u want to remain with me ???? she asked me .... plz help me....thanks in advance....
7 responses
@new2345 (32)
• India
27 May 09
Make ur GF understand the difference between physical attraction and love. Love is not just getting physically attracted to someone. Its a feeling that u get for one among the lot. As u said she agreed with u, what is she trying to convey when she is agreeing with u. Give her some time and make her understand wt u expect out of her and what u feel for her. All the best dude :)
• India
27 May 09
thanks for nice reply fnd....she saying me to change....she saying i will not change ....
@jlamela (4898)
• Philippines
27 May 09
Just be yourself and be honest with your feelings. There's nothing more irritating and annoying than a man who always lied and never tell the truth. If you love your friend then show it and tell her honestly.
• India
27 May 09
thanks for responding dear....
@cindyhxf (1446)
• China
27 May 09
well i think just you know your feeling to her much.maybe she just need safe feeling from you and make sure if you really love her.that is why she asked.just give her engough care and love and let her know you really care her.
• India
26 May 09
I think you should give more time to your relation and donot hurry.These things are very crutial.You have to be with her always and make her understand that you won't leave her at any point of time.Be with her in her ups and downs.She will automatically understand it.Because you can't force her to fall in love with you.
• India
27 May 09
thanks dear....
@qiyunhai (254)
• China
27 May 09
you only can speak love to the person who will be lived together with you many years,so you must think over it first?what;s the shortage of your gl friend,can you accept for many years? what can you offer for her? love is not a word, it's life. after you find the answer,you can speak love to her in heart.
• India
27 May 09
thanks fnd
• United States
27 May 09
I think you should try to show her how much you care for her rather then tell her. I'm in a similar situation where I really love a girl and am not sure how to tell her. I'm going to pass on what some mylotters have passed on to me. Actions speak louder than words. That is to say that you could go on for eternity trying to tell her how much you care about her. I think she will appreciate you more if you can show her through your actions how much you care for her. That will also show her that your love for her goes deeper than physical attraction. I think if you try this you will be golden. -John
• India
27 May 09
thanks for the reply fnd....
@ksherrie (891)
• Singapore
27 May 09
I am not sure myself.. I just know that I am happy when my boyfriend is around. Everything seems lighter and comfortable with him around... He always make me happy.... He is willing to wait for me to end work.. He even waited for 4hours for me in hunger just to have dinner with me after my OT.. I can only say love is hard to describe and explained.. You have to ask yourself what is it that makes you love her and not just like her as a friend... This is something I cannot help you as you have to ask your heart for the answers. Only you know why you want to remain with her... Only you know what is it you like about her... Only you know how you will feel if she is not around... Only you know how much you miss her when you did not hear or see her... Only you know whether you can stay by her side when she is sick, troubled, or even dying...*touch wood* But you roughly know what I mean.. You have to really think in depth before you say those three words to somebody else. To me it is of deep significance to say those words. It is not something you just say for the sake of saying...