broken marriage
By deborahwd
@deborahwd (105)
United States
May 26, 2009 7:18pm CST
How is it that you can be married and you believe with all your heart that things are just great, you and your spouce be so happy and very loving and all at once with out no warning they walk away and never come back and don't give you a reason, so you finally catch them to asked what happen and they say, I no longer love you, don't bother me no more for I don't want to pay bills any more, How can someone who loves you with their heart and soul out of the blues don't love you no longer because they don't want to pay the bills and that the money they make is theirs and they don't feel they should share it. Is it me or should I not feel pain, for I was told I'm a fool to hurt.
4 responses
@deborahwd (105)
• United States
27 May 09
Yes, always be optimized, It away will give you hope, and to do anything, well we all walk a different walk of life, and some are able to walk away and never hurt but others show hurt were others are able to hide there pain, everyone deal with things different, some of us cry a little longer.
@stafei (98)
• China
27 May 09
Pls don't feel you are getting hurt, i know it isn't so easy to forget the one you love before, you are sentient with he or she. But is it worth to love the one that don't you, is it worth to spent the rest like together with him? is it worth to bear so many pains. No!no need, just go ahead to find you another love you person, there must be the right person wait for you, may not now, but it must have.
@deborahwd (105)
• United States
27 May 09
well, I no deep in my heart that there is someone for us all, but I think I rather just be happy with just me and my children for now, I do love him, but You also just can't turn your feelings off like a light bulb, It will take some time, but you no, It is time for me to learn to love me again I got so into my marriage that I have forgotten all about my life, well, I think i really just want and need the time for me and my kids
@meandmy3 (2227)
• United States
27 May 09
You are not a fool for feeling pain and for hurting, it is natural to hurt when someone you love walks away. I would venture to say that there is more to it, more that they are not telling you. And it seems that they were very much into themselves.
keep your chin up and know you will not be judged here for hurting
@deborahwd (105)
• United States
27 May 09
You no it is really strange to no you give your life to someone and for no reason just to walk away and never once look back,, I think you may be right, but I no he did this to me a few years ago to, his parents said that is just how he is, he is very self centered and when there is something he wants, he will though you away like trash if your in his way, I never knew he did that with his first wife to, but came to me I never knew he was married I was told he was divorce, his parents told me the same thing, but after 2 years together then I find out that We got married 2 days after his divorce, they never were divorce until he left her for me, and when I found that out I was crushed, He walked away from everything, kid and all, walked out and never looked back, not once, well, I think he also got rather upset for I found out that his son that he only saw once was in a foster home and I foult tooth and nail to get him out, Well, my husband left then for he never wanted nothing to do with the boy, but after 3 long years of me fighting for this boy, my husband did get custdy of him well, he isn't the best with the boy, not at all.. but now my husband has taken the boy and will not let him speek with me, He did let him called me to tell me that daddy told me to tell you that we will never be back. So, yes, I feel like a real fool, I guess It is just the way I was brough up I guess, that you stand by your man and hope for the best, But, I really think it's time for me to chage those rules, for they stink.
@qiyunhai (254)
• China
30 May 09
love is myths,no one can guess what will happen.i tell a real story, my boss married with his wife about 7years, one time he went to business trip about two weeks, when he came back with a girl, he told his wife he love her completely till half of month ago,but now he will not love her.what do you think the real story?love is ...
