love marriage
By sid_mona
@sid_mona (5)
India
6 responses
@sblossom (2168)
•
23 Aug 09
I can say which one is more successful. We see some marriage ended but some arrange marriage lived happily at last. So it really depends. However I believe at beginning love marriage would be happier and easier than the arrange marriage.Because they know each other very well and love each other. The arrange marriage needs long time to adjust and know each other to start a happy marriage. For a couple in arrange marriage they have possibility to love each other or not love each other. So the risk is more than the love marriage.
@maryann725 (44)
• Philippines
28 May 09
Yes if both of you love each other i don't see any reason to fail your marriage life because love is very powerful rather than arrange marriage. In arrange marriage your trying to love him what if it didnt work. Then you have your children they will suffer a lot. It is better when you start a relationship you should love each other.
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
27 May 09
Hi there Sid!
I believe that love marriage is more likely to succeed over arranged married. Because there us a strong foundation which is the love but it also needs to be nurtured. It is not impossible for a love marriage to succeed though especially if both parties are willing to make the marriage work out and I personally know a few couples here in the province who have arranged marriage but ended up learning to love each other anyway.
@beamsey (425)
• Philippines
27 May 09
I'd say a love marriage is more successful. Arranged marriages are impractical nowadays and kind of old-fashioned. Even if both turn out to be successful, a love marriage will probably be more enduring and more stable than an arranged marriage. Love marriages are born out of two peoples desire to get married and possibly start a family. An arranged marriage is exactly what its name says, something arranged, regardless of how the two people feel toward each other.
@wendywhy (64)
• United States
27 May 09
I think that most people have a wrong idea about love. They think it is like the movies and once you 'fall in love' you will be in love always. If you fall out of love then it wasn't true love at all. The truth is that love is a decision. You have to decide to love someone every day. I think the arranged marriage may have an advantage because the partners know that they have to work to get along and the love marriage thinks it should come easily, then are disappointed and often divorce.
@new2345 (32)
• India
27 May 09
According to me its love marriage. U get a chance to decide weather he is the whom u wud want to spend ur whole lyf.