Steady Relation or Live Together or One Night Stand

At this point in my life I'm looking for a steady relationship. I've done plenty of one night stands and quite frankly they are not as satisfying as a relationship. I like to pamper my girlfriend and make her happy. It's really hard to do that in a one night stand besides that actual night ;) Given the fact that I attend college I don't really have to worry about the living together. I agree that a relationship takes a lot of work and responsibilities but that's also what makes a relationship so special. It feels good to work for someone you really want or someone you plan on keeping. A steady relationship becomes more than physical attraction and hook ups Being in a steady relationship means that you except the person for their good and bad qualities. In the end, nothing beats a steady flow of love and devotion from a partner. -John

I would have to say that I would pick neither. Your definition of all makes the three just not for me. I have a fiance and we are going to be happily married. We live together and are in a steady relationship, and as I've said we are to be married. So according to your defintion, or rather my interpretation of them, neither of the two I've said "steady vs living together" nor the "one night stand" is for me.

Right now i am married so i must go with the steady relation because of the life i have picked out for myself. I like it because we have a son now and am ready to let him grow up and turn into a man like i have done. Living together just progresses into marriage usually, or you get totally disgusted and move out and it's just a simple breakup. But as for the one night stand that was always my favorite and would probably still be if i didn't get married. I think that's for when your younger and need bragging rights. LOL.

Yes, you right are many kinds of relations...but first i want to say, that i am agree only with a steady relation, i am against one night stand, even man like to have this kind of relation. So, i want to be in a steady relation, but only if i am inlove with somebody..i don t care about marriage, is not my goal, in my opinion a love relation don t need a paper to be a strong relation. But as much as man like one night stand relation...i preffear to be alone, depend how much is important love and respect for somebody

Id' rather choose the steady relationship primarily because it'll mold me to be a better person. When you are in a steady relationship its expected that you have that commitment to your partner to be faithful and be serious enough to handle a relationship. To live together doesn't guarantee that it'll last long so I don't like the idea because it's too harsh when the two of you say goodbye. On the other hand, one night stand is the safest but its pretty rude for me imagine you spend your night with the person and then after that you two pretend that nothings happen.

Steady Relationship and Living Together are definitely the way to go. Sure, one night stands may be fun in your younger years but there comes a time when you want to have that special person by your side when you go to bed and when you wake up. However, relationships need to be with the right person. Being in a relationship with the wrong person is a waste of time and effort and usually ends in heartbreak for one if not both parties

if i want to describe my self then i will start with living together because before engeged with a permanent relation we should know each other so living together gives the chance to know each other but there may be another question about if physical relation should be maintain or not during the living together i dont mind t keep physical if my partner is agreed and that reason may not be to engeged for ever

Well let me tel you I m from India and in India we don't prefer one night stand nit is not legitimate to keep live in relation so we cant prefer keeping this all and if i prefer I prefer only steady relation because i m engaged with a guys for more than 5 yrs..so my preference goes to steady relation.

I am in a relation which started steadily and now we are planning to get married after a few months. I think the most important thing is commitment. A one night stand may not do it. Living together can help. But a steady relation is perhaphs the best solution , as far as I think. Others may differ. It worked for me and I believe that we must not over commit ourself, slow and steady might work.

I have always prefered steady relationship compared to the others. well I think it all depends with whom you are and what are your intentions about your relation with that person.

hi arkasen, i love steady relation instead of that two. it is said that slow and steady wins the race. i believe it. thanks.

I think it has no choice. I mean whatever the relationship is, it depends on the both two. If you love someone, no matter how he is , responsible or not responsible, you for sure want to love him forever.So if you love someone,you will want to marry with him.Of course,it is a steady relation. But if he love you but dare not be responsible or he is just for fun, will you choose? Of course,it deserves nothing but waste time,I think.

A "one night stand" is cheap and shallow... and no telling what kind of diseases you might get from someone you've only just met! Living together still has the same responsibilities as marriage.... just without hte paper work and it's easier to legally get out of it! Long term has the quailites I would like in a partner... dedication, responsibility, committment... why would I not want all that? I can find a "room mate" anytime but someone who wants to stay with me forever.... much more rare!

Ceratinly a steady relation is the best pic. In todays competetive world everyone in this world wants peace of mind and at the same time a supportive person by his side and who could be a better person that the life partner to support. At the same time people wil steady affairs are respected by all and beleive it or not the same bunch of people are the most successful ones.