Is there an easy way to help someone get over pain when they lose a loved one?

That is a very sad story. Thank you for sharing - we plan on going on a trip a couple of months from now and we'll make sure that we won't let such a mistake happen to our trip (regarding overloaded boat). I believe that there's really no easy way to help her get over the pain - it would be there for a VERY very long time and on her certain situation, there would also be a certain kind of guilt because she might feel that she was supposed to be there... and that if she was, maybe things would have turned out differently and they might all still be together. I believe that she should not suppress her grief - she should cry as much as she wants but she would have to stop eventually. There's no specific timeline for this - you'd just know when it has been too long and she should stop grieving and start moving on. Then she has to accept her loss, which is very different. The best way to make her feel better - when she's ready to feel better, is to make her laugh :) It's not an easy task but it's the best cure there is. You're a nice sibling, I hope you stay with your sister in her time of need. Thanks for the response on my discussion!

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I'm so sorry that your sister has to go through all this. My heart certainly goes out to her. As for how you can handle this difficult period, just be there for her. You don't need to say anything or do anything. Just be with her, make sure that she's never alone lest she gets so depressed. Just have a light chat with her and try not to remind her of that sad incident.

Hi, I think the best way you can do for her is to pray for her to recover in her current situation and for her friends soul. It is not easy to get over the pain especially right now that the event is still fresh for her. Time heals everything. Just don't make her left behind. If she wants somebody to talk to, be there even if she just want to reminisce the moments with her friends. Tell her more on positive outlook in life and that event happen for a reason. Anyways, as time passes by, she'll be alright...

I am very sorry to hear that. As I've read through your article, it's like I felt what your sister is actually feeling. Losing four friends is not a thing where you can actually move on when you want to. But I am happy that you try your best to comfort her. I think it's better that you let her cry for quite some time. Don't talk about the incident when unnecessary and emphatize with her. I hope it helps.

I thought there is no other way but to long term effect in resolving this issue. There might not be a quick cure but has to undergo long term effect before everything will be accepted and to let go. It may be the gravest one to bear as to always think of the best possible thing to do. That is to remember them not to forget they are always in good to the other side of life.