What if a Girl denies you to give her Phone Number?

India
May 27, 2009 6:32am CST
I have a friend in my computer classes. She has no problems at all with me and is comfortable as a friend. But today when I asked her contact number, she told me that I am sorry I cannot give you the number. When asked why, she replied, coz a guy from the same institute has played a prank on her when she had given her number to him and hence she cannot give the number to me. Ok now what does this means, does she think that I may also do some kind of prank, or she has still not accepted me as her friend and dont have faith in me? Obviously, when the classes will get over, I will not have any kind of contact information. So I will loose my friend. For that I am scared. But what I feel is that maybe she still thinks that I am not capable of being her friend? Is that possible? Or else,why will she denie to give her number. I felt really bad when she did this. But anyways, you cant do anything at all. If you have suggestions of how to behave from now onwards in front of her, I will really appreciate your effort. Thanks in advance.
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• India
27 May 09
try to live with it in the present condition , dont force him to get no., she only knows you from a short time that's the main problem , all the girls react like this , i think there is no exception. try to make him always happy , after a short time , she herself give you her no. , if you build a good presence towards her. sometimes girls like a wild presence also(nearly 5% out of 99% unmarried girls)
• India
27 May 09
by the way its not he, she is a girl. And I am the guy! It is possible as you told. But many days passed since I met her and I thought that she has atleast accepted me as her friend. But not. Lets see what happens as the time passes. Ok, do u have any tips of how to build a good presence in front of her?
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• India
28 May 09
where did i use " he " the word , i had not found it in my post , but if you were thinking i had a mistake in post then i am sorry. the only tip i can give you is to share all your opinions with her & try to make him to share with you. this will reveal all the secrets that both of you have in your mind & will make both of you to know better. then i am 100% sure that after a month of such activities she will probably give you her number.