Boyfriend is far away working

@jilshi (271)
Malaysia
May 27, 2009 8:32am CST
My boyfriend always working at overseas and only we only managed to meet once in a three month. He spend more than time at overseas than with me. How can we maintain our long distance replationship? We had been dating more than 5 years and i do not want to lost him. He did call me every night but i think that is still insufficient.
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@navonly (901)
• India
27 May 09
Hey! its really great to know that you are into relationship since last 5 years. First of all would like to say Congrats to you for that. Friend, I can understand your situation. Its really very tough to pass time without the one you love. I hope you trust your love and the person you love. Thats the most important thing for the time being. Now, have both of you planned for marriage? Or still just want to continue your relationship just like this? Dear friend, I don't want to poke my nose into your relationship, but if I am into such kind of relationship, I would first of all secure my relationship with my gal, then think of future of our relationship, that is marriage and all. You should have a talk with him directly, and say him that you feel unsecured, when he is out for 3 months. So either join you back or take you with him along. I mean to say marriage is the only solution to your problem.
@jilshi (271)
• Malaysia
28 May 09
Yes, you are right. I tolally agree wih you. Marriage might be the best solution. In fact, we had share to bought an apartment but we seldom stay together.
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@navonly (901)
• India
28 May 09
Thats good, you should move ahead in life now, and get married.