would a man with a lot of previous relationships put you off?

@GemmaR (8517)
May 27, 2009 10:20am CST
would you think a man was a user if he'd already had a lot of relationships? i wouldnt know what to think. in a way, id have to think 'well what if im just the same as all the others?' but if you really like a guy, should his history matter??
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@Nahliab (31)
• United States
27 May 09
I do not think it should put you off as yet cuz u don't know why he has been in a lot of relationships maybe he was not mature enough as yet to know he wants to be in a long lasting committed relatonship that could lead to marriage.
@GemmaR (8517)
27 May 09
Yes that is true. I guess I was in many relationships before I got with my man who I'm with at the moment, and he doesn't judge me because he knows I'm older and a lot more mature than I was back then. Thanks for taking the time to respond :)
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
27 May 09
All men put me off at present The fact that a man had had relationships in the past would not influence me about his present. Nothing about his past would if I felt something was right about him at the time of getting to know him. As long as it was him who eas telling me about his previous partners and not someone else (and he was hiding it or 'forgetting' to mention it) then it would make no difference at all to me.
@GemmaR (8517)
27 May 09
Oh dear do I sense man problems?? Well I don't really like any of them at the moment either, so I'm with you on that one! Yes I agree, as long as he tells you the truth about it then it's nothing to worry about. Thank you for taking the time to respond :)
@arkaf61 (10881)
• Canada
16 Jul 09
That a man had many relationships in the past would not really matter much to me but how he was in each of those relationships might. Should history matter? Only when it comes to form an idea of who and how the person is. Or if there is a negative pattern being repeated. SOmetimes we fall in love for people that maybe aren't up there in the list of people we should consider falling in love. But the number of relationships a person had in the past is not an exact indicator of a problem, in my opinion.
@Nahliab (31)
• United States
27 May 09
nothing is really worng with that maybe he was not mature and was not really looking for a long lasting relationship that may lead to marriage. It is always good to get to know someone and the reasons they are the way the are before we shut them out and not give them a chance, you could be passing up one of the sweetest persons but please do your nvestigation