didn't they think, its not easy to be a housewife! (to be a woman)
By ckyera
@ckyera (17331)
Philippines
May 27, 2009 10:41am CST
its not a new thing to see on news the women/ wives who are abused by their husbands...battered housewife...martyrs...huh!
i don't know what kind of mind do those men have, those men who do violence to their wives...didn't they think how difficult it is to be a housewife?
the daily routines of a wife's life is somehow difficult. wake up early, prepare the family needs, take care of their children, do everything in the house...its tiring!
and after doing those things i think nobody deserves to be beaten by anyone...
men, i think wives deserve some recognition from their husbands and good treatment from them...i'm just sad to know that there still some people(men) in this world who treat women as if they are the king of these women...and as if women is inferior and they are the superior...huh!
blessings!
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11 responses
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
13 Jul 09
Man whom abuses their wives are not man, instead they are weakling, cowards and gutless.. They only dare to bully woman whom are weak and wont fight back.. This kind of man, are simply useless..
Or even, they know that their wife loved them so much that, it's ok to beat them, for they wont leave them for sure.. While, in some men's mindset, woman are meant to be beaten and bullied for their status are not as important like man.. Just like in some countries, woman are not even respected at all, and all thus causing all the man to have high ego and pride..
If i ever meet such a man, i will definitely fight him face on, and even allow his wife to step on him, hit him while he's low.. haha =D LEt him lose his ego and pride completely in public.. haha =D
@dpk262006 (58673)
• Delhi, India
20 Aug 09
Hi Ck!
I appreciate the fact that a wife is a pillar of a house and wives do lots of sacrifices and work to run the show, more than their husbands. They are always on their feet and remain active, throughout the entire day, till they go to sleep. I give full honour and respect to women and my wife too. I fail to understand how some of the husbands could be so nasty and start disrespecting their wives. I think these kind of ill mannered husbands should be dealt with severly and be punished, if possible.
I appreciate the fact that a wife is a pillar of a house and wives do lots of sacrifices and work to run the show, more than their husbands. They are always on their feet and remain active, throughout the entire day, till they go to sleep. I give full honour and respect to women and my wife too. I fail to understand how some of the husbands could be so nasty and start disrespecting their wives. I think these kind of ill mannered husbands should be dealt with severly and be punished, if possible. @dpk262006 (58673)
• Delhi, India
20 Aug 09
Ck!
I feel that those who hurt will not be forgiven by the God, they would be punished sooner or later for their deeds.
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
20 Aug 09
hello dpk!
nice to see again here...
i am happy that you see your wife and other women that way...i hope all men thinks that way...so that no more women will suffer...like you, i also can't figure out why there's some men like them who are capable of hurting their wives not onlt physically but emotionally as well...
i guess they really needs to be punished!
i am happy that you see your wife and other women that way...i hope all men thinks that way...so that no more women will suffer...like you, i also can't figure out why there's some men like them who are capable of hurting their wives not onlt physically but emotionally as well...
i guess they really needs to be punished!
@lindiebiz (1006)
• Canada
10 Dec 09
Hi sister, I agree with you, men shold learn to appreciate thier wive because it is so difficult to take care of children, work, clean up, prepare the meals and all that. If the roles were reversed, most men would not be able to cope. Guys try to give your wives some recognition, its good not only for you but her.
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
5 Jan 10
i agree to both of you that its really never easy to be a woman...to be a wife.
i can say that we, women are good in multi tasking and we are really flexible, being able to do all those things in the house, taking care of our husband and the kids...and maintaining the house!
and yes, we deserved to be respected and being pampered by our husbands...and get some inspirations from them..they should learn how to appreciate us...
thanks to both of you for sharing...
@Nameless_ (1180)
• Australia
17 Dec 09
I agree. In some ways, being a women is more stressful than being a man at work, because you have to do things physically, wipe the floors and clean the windows and such, take care of the children, and stay optimistic even if your children throws a fit at you, buy grocery, cook, and do everything.
being a woman is hard, and men should respect them.
@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
23 Nov 09
Its a sad fact but it happens because they let their husbands do it and get away with it too. There are laws that protects women against abuse, if only they can use these laws to protect themselves and put their husbands to jail then they just made life easier for them. But some women treat their husbands as their god which is wrong. It not easy to be stay at home wife, in fact i would rather go to work than spend the whole day at home and take care of the kids but my wife is able to accomplish everything that why i've so much respect for her and the hard work she put in. Although she can get noisy at times complaining, but i guess it comes with the territory. Cheers!
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
23 Nov 09
hello ybong!
its good to know that there's still men like you...who have high respect for their wives and recognize their efforts...i wish all men are like you...being concern with the welfare of their better half...
yeah its a sad truth there are still some women who are covering up for their husbands and always playing martyr!
some just don't have the courage to fight coz they are afraid and they are just dependent with their husbands...
its just good now, that there are already some organizations helping those women who are being abused..i hope greater punishment will be given to those who abuse their wives & children...
thanks ybong
some just don't have the courage to fight coz they are afraid and they are just dependent with their husbands...
its just good now, that there are already some organizations helping those women who are being abused..i hope greater punishment will be given to those who abuse their wives & children...
thanks ybong @arakawaii (270)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
I hate those men who hit woman or their wives, they are the worst people in this world, thankfully my dad wasn't like that. But I have this uncle that beats his wife when his drunk, whenever I think of it, I got this fear that what if my husband to be is like my uncle. For sure men at first wouldn't dare show you that they are violent but later on the marriage life, they would be... So scared, I hope it will not happen to me.
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
hello arakawaii,
yeah i agree with you, they are the worst and the most coward man in this world...
and i think no one would want to have such kind of man in our lives...
i also have this uncle well, he's not really violent by nature but there's one incidence that he i think punch his wife and it gives her a black eye...and what my aunt d is to take a photo of her having that black eye and displayed it in their house...hehe and every time my uncle saw it he feels ashamed of himself!
well, you can always pray to God and ask for his help and guidance for you to have a good husband in the future...
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
16 Jul 09
ckyera, I fully agree with you.. I know that being a house wife is not that easy. They do work hard and keep the home and family in good moods and conditions.women are in no way inferior to men. they are equal.
without you we will be zero. so cool down.
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
17 Jul 09
hello there vijayanths!
well thanks that there's still men like you thinking that way!
well i just arrived in this topic because of this one documentary that i watched on tv and there they show some women who have been abused by their husbands...and i pity women like them and i want their husbands to be punished...
thanks!
thanks!
@ucue2008 (924)
• Malaysia
30 Jul 09
Yes I know, its not easy to be a housewife, even though I haven't been a housewife, but seeing my three sister in law, make me understand how hard the job is. There are a lot of things they need to bear and feel, and also to sope with in laws is not something easy. I resent a guy who beat their wife as being a wife and mother, a woman is sacrifice a lot already, and even thank you the husband cannot say, yet they beat their wife? that is very bad.
@mermaidivy (15394)
• United States
3 Aug 09
I am a woman and I agree it is not easy to be a woman... it is not easy to give birth, have it inside for 10 months and finally "pop" it out; taking care of the kids is not easy, need to teach them good is not easy... there are lots of stuff are not easy... I agree veyr much that wives derserve good treatment and understandings from the husband.
@haiershen (1080)
• China
30 Jul 09
yes, i think to be a housewif is not easy to do, nowadays, woman have their own job or career,so when their went home, it is very tired to do anything,so i think the health family should be do the housework together with all of the member.housework isn't the routines of a wife. good luck and have a nice day!
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
30 Jul 09
yes, its not really easy to be a woman and a housewife...and so men should know how to recognize all the things that their wife is doing and be grateful for them...
men should not buse their wives for they are not their slaves...they should love and take care of them...
have a nice day!
@ced_cap (207)
• Philippines
1 Oct 09
Gud am. ced_cap here. We both know it's really very hard to be a woman. Especially for both of us coz' we're not just ordinary housewives being married to ministers of the church. We perform other duties and responsibilities which ordinary housewives don't. For me, it's even harder because i also have 3 kids to attend to everyday. For me it's 24/7 everyday. Very tiring but yet very fulfilling. That's why we should be treated and loved by our husband the way we treated and love them (which i think they do, in fairness to them).
