Will you tell your girlfriend (boyfriend) your past experience?
By neulichuang
@neulichuang (85)
China
May 27, 2009 11:10am CST
After a period of romance and painful struggle, you will have some new friends and new sweethearts. The days you spend will be sweet and pleasurable. Maybe he or she is smart enough not to ask your past, though eager to know it: how deep you fell in love with someone and how you split up. Will you tell him or her? Will you hide it, keep silent or choose to delete that part of memory?
3 responses
@smallcloud (338)
• Malaysia
7 Jun 09
yes i think it is necessary to let him/ her know my past
although current is most important one but i dun wan he/she feel regret after getting know of my past after married
in a relationship, honest to each other is important and should not be neglect
he/she can accept me right now even the future how come he/she cannot accept my past if he/she really love me?
although my memory can delete and make it nothing happened before at all but i cant delete other's memory. for example, i take part in gangster before but right now i am not. i can choose to hide it and delete the unhappy memories from my mind
but one day when i met the old gangs at the street with my gf/bf, how am i going to hide it
choose honest always better than hide it
@yanfeiduan (4)
• China
30 May 09
For me, i never hide it. i believe that the ones really love each other do not mind of what happen in the past at all. just let past past, it never comes back, and the most valuable is tha present. so we are both completely opend up, we understand and respect each other. in my mind, ture love should be powerful enough to embrace everything.
@beverleyparkes (93)
• Jamaica
27 May 09
Well..depending on the circumstancies, some friends turn around and used it against you.. So you of to be careful what you say to friends.
