Do you treat all your children the same?
By K.S.
@02karen (172)
United States
May 27, 2009 11:25am CST
When a parents says I treat all my children the same its not just by saying it; its by doing it. For an example, for a mother that has three children. Are you treating the oldest by giving them more and the youngest because its the baby...what about the middle child he or she its left out most of the time get's the blame. Some parents says it but they dont show it a few do. So parents what is your response to this question?
3 responses
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
27 May 09
i have only one kid and she is my princess.if i have next kid it will be treaten the same coz its from my blood
@magrylouyu (1627)
• United States
27 May 09
I have 2 biological daughters 4 and 5 and a 6 year old stepson who lives with us, also another daughter on the way. All 3 of them get treated the same in my house, including my stepson. When I go shopping I alternate who goes with me or depending on the day it can be who ever is being good. They all get the same amount of food as well as snacks and deserts. I try to spend the same amount of time with each of them but sometimes that can be cut short as one day one child might be acting up and refuses to behave so instead of 30 minutes it can be 15. There are days where 2 of them will be acting up and the other one might be behaving very good. The child that is behaving will get my attention while the other children are not until they can behave.
@biman_s (1060)
• India
27 May 09
I am not yet married but I can tell one thing that if I get married and have more than one child there I would love my kids equally. I have a family with one sister and a brother who are smaller than me. My parents always loved us the same and they never let anyone believe that they loved him/her less. This quality has been passed into me as well and I am sure that I would love all my kids equally.
