Life after Rejection - How do you handle this?

Philippines
May 27, 2009 1:55pm CST
I was once rejected by a woman i thought will be mine forever. We were happy on our first 3 years; suddenly she left me and rejected me. I don't know what went wrong, until now I’m still hurting, I want to move on but I want her back. What would I do? :(
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• India
30 May 09
Some wounds never heal. One of these is the pain of rejection. You cant expect the wound to heal but the pain does lessen after a while. It may take you months or even years to stop feeling that pain and little things can bring up the pain into your heart like a flood. Don't focus on how to stop hurting - when you do that, the old memories will just haunt you. Go about your daily routine, spend a little extra time working, do some hard physical work (maybe join a gym). By the end of the day you will be so tired that you will just sleep. When you wake up, the pain will be 0.0000000000000001% less. Work on that each day. And remember - those who leave you for no fault of your own were just not good enough for you.
@daneg33 (1128)
• Canada
27 May 09
Unfortunately this is part of life. Until you find the person who is right for you, there will be lots of pain and tears either on your part or hers. You need to busy yourself with everyday life and try to get on with your life. There is a reason for everything, and the reason that this didn't work out is because she isn't right for you. Surround yourself with fun people and do fun things. Once you get out there and enjoy yourself, you will find someone new and is time goes on, you will forget all about her.