Looking for a friend
By velentina
@velentina (891)
Mauritius
May 28, 2009 12:08am CST
I am a widow since 3 yrs. I am feeling too lonely so I thought to have a friend. I got many proposals but after some meeting I refused them. I always think they are using me and that they are not sincere to me. Please help me to overcome this complexity. Give me advices of how I can really trust a person. Do you think I should have a friend if I am 42 yrs old? Some of my friends asked me to get married again but I don't want to get in any long term relationship. Please help me to get a sincere friend.
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5 responses
@drumgurl21 (58)
• Philippines
28 May 09
I personally think you shouldnt worry about it too much, just take it one day at a time, no need to rush. Im sure you have other long term friends you can rely on and tell your problems to. You will meet someone perfect for you but you should first heal yourself, cause even if you do meet someone and youre not fit to maintain the relationship then it might not work out
@velentina (891)
• Mauritius
29 May 09
You are right I mush not rush in such matters. I will wait for the right person to share my grief, feelings and worries. I have many long term friends but they are not reliable.
@hanah87 (1835)
• Malaysia
28 May 09
Oh poor you.Dont worry and relax.I think you are not too old.Maybe it is difficult to find a true partner out there.Maybe you should change your old mind and always think positive.You must have high confident too and make a research how to be a real good partner.Thank you.
@velentina (891)
• Mauritius
29 May 09
Ya you are right it is indeed difficult to fiend a true partner here. All the man are playboy. It is just like this proverb " Friends are like melons you have to taste a hundred to get a sweet one" Anyway thank you for your good advice.
@velentina (891)
• Mauritius
28 May 09
I too accept you as my friend even if we do not share the same interest. A friend in need is a friend indeed. Plz add me as your friend. Tell me more about yourself.
@kamisha (95)
• Mauritius
11 Jun 09
well friendship means to help each other a lot and it's true it's hard to find true friends but one hint i can give you is that if you meet a person try to ask him everything about him and tell him that you are poor and you live in a home but trying to search for a partner,,then you see his reaction...if he truly has feeling for you or want you as his life partner,he'll accept you as you are///check it out..then get a right one
@helicesar (57)
• Indonesia
11 Jul 09
you must be king fell for people,,be patient in occur situation, get married now..
