do you believe in "time can heal the pain?"
By alleroid16
@alleroid16 (943)
Philippines
May 28, 2009 12:41am CST
uh, i just want to get opinions on you guys. do you believe on that? for me. it's really a big question. i had problem with my friend, which i have witness something that i never ever wanted to hear. well, i am her friend since then and until now, but i really can't forget how she hurted me that time. and everytime it crosses to my mind it makes me feels to cry. so how about you? do you believe in this? have you experienced a situation like this?
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7 responses
@shikaymaru (700)
• Malaysia
28 May 09
Hello alleroid16!
The only reason that you still hurt is because you can't forgive her right. I understand that it's never easy to forgive someone especially the one who hurt you so badly. But you must understand that the more you think about it, your memory about that will not faded and it will haunt you always.
I did experience this thing before, even though how much I hated that person, I won't allow it to haunt me forever because I want to be happy as much as I want in my life.
Life is short you know. Have a nice day!
@alleroid16 (943)
• Philippines
28 May 09
yeah. i haven't forgive her yet. but i always communicate with her, almost everyday i think. but everytime i remember what she did to me, it makes me irritable and i am hating the world. i don't know how long will it takes to fade. but you know what, she really don't know that i hate her a bit. X(
@shikaymaru (700)
• Malaysia
28 May 09
That's because you are expert in hiding feeling. lol..Well, we are equal. There are time when I won't show my true feeling to people. I can say that it is my nature. Anyway, I hope that someday you can forget about it.
Owh, I notice one thing. You can't forget about it because you meet her everyday. Hmmmm...That make sense. What do you think?
@alleroid16 (943)
• Philippines
31 May 09
uh.not i meet her everyday, but i do communicate her everyday. anyway, i give up. just want to end it up this friendship we have. and start something new. that make sense. XD
@thejuice (235)
• Indonesia
28 May 09
When someone special like boyfriend or best friend hurt our heart, it's really pain full.i have a bad memories about being hurt with best friend or boy friend, and time really can heal the pain if we learn to forgive their mistakes.i think you should try to forgive him/her.
@alleroid16 (943)
• Philippines
28 May 09
okay, i'll let myself learn to forgive her. i'll try. if forgiving her will let my pain heals then okay. i'll forgive her. hehe. but how if i really can't?
@alleroid16 (943)
• Philippines
28 May 09
waa. i'm hoping that the pain will heal as soon as possible. i hate suffering like this.
@smallcloud (338)
• Malaysia
7 Jun 09
i believe it and i am also believe that a new relationship wil make you accept the fact and try the new life
it mayb hurt but the time passed, you mayb experience that there are more things to make you upset, it is hurt more than the past,you will find that actually break up is nothing.you should buck up yourself and start your journey of looking love again..
the earth wont stop for you becoz of your upset, you should move on like what the earth do
@med889 (5941)
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28 May 09
Yes I do believe in this because I have undergone this experience.
There are times when we can talk about something without having experience it but I believe we are better when we have gone through something and thus talking about it.
I suffered in the past, I felt defeated by destiny, I was frustrated with every results. I thought never ever will my wounds be cured because it was so fresh and so real that it seemed to be cut apart from life and something which is already cut apart is no more alive again.
But with time, which is sometimes a foe as it gives us so much pain and sometimes it is the best cure as it cures every pain you have. Time is the best healer ever in this world.
@alleroid16 (943)
• Philippines
28 May 09
i hopes that everything i have suffer will heals in the future or the earliest possible time. i hate to feel like this, i am suffering for about a year, and this problems always makes me cry. and i hate crying. T_T
@Elie6208 (58)
• United States
31 May 09
Yes I have, in fact, experienced that. And I don't believe in "time can heal the pain." I only believe time can hide the pain. Because in the end, you end up remembering, and just remembering is enough to make it hurt again. But then again, I do believe in forgiving, people always deserve a second chance.
@alleroid16 (943)
• Philippines
31 May 09
you have the point. that in time can hide the pain, because as time past by, you will forget the pain you have.
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
28 May 09
I have experienced this before and I have to say that it can be applicable to some people while others simply just hold on to such feelings and just experience them all over again when the same thing happens to them. Its a matter of letting go and accepting what has happened or keeping it all to oneself and continuing to regret the event as long as they could.
