This kind of people make me to be crazy!!!
By icesmile
@icesmile (7160)
Romania
May 28, 2009 1:18am CST
I hate when i borrow something, and who i give, forgot to bring me back when he or she promise.
I don t know why people like to make promisess and never respect his word.
I hate people who talk, talk and talk, make you to believe what they say..and after they forgot, or want to forgot to respect promisess.
To many words for nothing.
I know JOKE ABOUT TO BORROW , about to borrow things...
somebody come to a friend and say...
"Please, do you want borrow me that book about commit suicide?"and owner answer..
" No, i don t want borrow to you , because you will not bring me back this book!!"
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9 responses
@strawberrychocodahi (4818)
• Philippines
28 May 09
Don't worry my friend. It is still better to give than to receive. If a friend asked or borrowed money for food, then give it to them who is in need. God in heaven has seen you on how you help the less fortunate. But if they abuse you of your kindness, God will still be the one to punish them. So don't be dismayed. In this world people are fooling others and does not even mind to give back what they owe. What is important you did not sin against God. And God alone will give you what you really need.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
28 May 09
yes people tend to be like that. There are those who promise yet they do not do it... but then you just have to be flexible, if you keep on thinking about it..you'll just get wrinkles. lol god bless!
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@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
28 May 09
Some people think I'm paranoied, and others think I'm selfish, i don't give a damn, The fact remains, i don't loan my stuff out to people (even to family) because of the reasons you specified. I hate it when people don't bring things back, or when things are returned in a worse condition than when they were loaned out.
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@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
28 May 09
hi Icesmile,
you are rights, now iam in the same problem, one my friend asked for some money, i have arranged from another friend, so many months are gone, everytime he is escaping, telling something,lastly i have asked my friend pay atleast interest, so that i pay the interest, from whome i have brought that money for interest, for the last one month he is not paying interest also, if icall in the morning, he said he will come in the evening,when i call in the evening, he said he will come next morning, what i have to do?
@srganesh (6340)
• India
28 May 09
In the first place ,we should not lend anything to anybody,if that thing is more important to us still.Also weigh the borrowing person and the material and decide among the greatest value.Personally,I don't lend or borrow things.We can politely refuse at the starting itself,stating the policy.Cheers!
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@rexertea (117)
• India
28 May 09
You know something icesmile, you can't change a person on how he thinks and act. I had faced circumstances when people had borrowed and didn't return the stuff on time. Some even never returned the stuff.
So I thought it's useless to blame somebody and try and read people, see his past credentials. If the guy seems that he won't keep his promises then he should not be allowed to borrow. That is how I think about it.
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@rexertea (117)
• India
28 May 09
There's something I would like to add here. There are times when you had borrowed and you want to return that stuff but you met with such a problem that while you know you had to return you still couldn't return the stuff. I will give you a short example.
A year ago my friend took a certain amount of money from me, and he was to return the money exactly after a week. what happened here on the 5th day was he faced a big problem and he needed to pay the money urgently. Now he only had the money which i gave him. he had kept it safely to return back to me. but the situation was such that he was forced to pay the money to get rid of the problem.
I understood the problem. I knew he wanted to give me but the situation forced him not to pay me. we need to be flexible at times in life.
@anniefannie (1737)
• United States
29 May 09
i have loaned things out and had to ask them to bring it back when they finished with it and i had to go get it back myself.some people just don't think that they might need to borrow something else and might not get what ever they need.
@justmeh (188)
• Philippines
29 May 09
I would raise my thumbs on that. That is actually happening making promises but then not having the word of honor. Sometimes I can consider others who always forgotten things but other I can't. More often that not promises are used to make a girl say yes when a guy is courting her,am I right?Therefore we could say that usually guys makes promises towards girls. They even used it as alibis,right?We must accept that fact cause whether we like it or not,it's the reality that we cannot avoid. As a cliche goes,"Promises are made to be broken...."PEACE!
@syedsafwan (40)
• Malaysia
29 May 09
i have been in the situation. my friend borrow my money and promise to pay back soon. but after waiting, he still dont pay me. so i just ask my money back from him. and he say, just give it, its not that much.
