love

United States
May 28, 2009 8:14am CST
are there really a thing call lasting love,and how do you fine it?
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• United States
28 May 09
It depends on what you mean by love. If you mean the romantic kind of love that you see in the movies based on raging hormones, I don't think so. If you mean love based on two people growing and evolving together and being able to communicate, make sacrifices for one another, and share life interests - then I think it is possible. Sometimes I think America has a high divorce rate because the media teaches us all the wrong things about love. To me, love is more about knowing how to live together through all of life's challenges. If you can do that, then I think love can last. Of course, there is nothing wrong with wild and raging hormones, but I generally find that relationships built primarily on that just don't last because it doesn't pay the bills, doesn't babysit screaming kids, doesn't sacrifice the toy you want for the toy that your kids want, and all those other mundane things that make up life.
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• United States
29 May 09
honey you hit it right on the head,well said.you have it down pat.thank you i love the way you express your self.i just hope it fine me soon.
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• United States
30 May 09
there not a mr. or a ms. perfect out there.no one is perfect.i just once want to be love for myself.is that to much to ask?
• United States
29 May 09
Love is there for everyone. Sometimes you just fail to recognize it. Don't wait for Mr. or Ms. Perfect. Perfection is not in the person, it's how the two of you make the relationship.
28 May 09
There is, but i think that you can't go looking for it, it will find you.. If you go looking for it maybe you'll get wrapped in to something that isn't true and you'll just get hurt. Enjoy your life, have fun.. love will come along one day :)
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• United States
29 May 09
will someone better be telling it where i am at soon. lol thank you for your comment.