How can we stay away from each other.

India
May 28, 2009 11:40am CST
Is it possible to continue a distant love? My friends sister got married to a software engineer 6 months back. Both are working in a different software firm. Both are separated by thosands of kilometres. One stays in singapore one stays in USA. They hardly meet each other, may be once in a year, communication between the two happens over phone. They claim that they are madly in love with each other, according to them,distance is not at all important--if you love someone than distance matters no way. I think its a total lie --why did they get married if this was supposed to happen.Its totally absurd and abnormal, both are lying to me. I mean how can they stay away from each other for such a long time. I will never be able to take this sitution if I get married to someone, we stay away from each other and we meet once a year. After a hard days work I come back, I see her face,I get delighted. we spk to each other, we eat together, we fight together,and then we sleep together--such a wonderful thing. I will get mad if I dont see her--I guess its applicable to all the true lovers in this world.
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@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
28 May 09
Hi, i got your point, tes acan be so hard for both who are involved in this kind of relations...maybe they need to feel commitment, maybe want be husband and wife, to feel each other better...i can t judge somebody because they choice to be toghether each other...Ans why not maybe they are happy, if they accept this relation. Long distance relation is very hard to keep alive, and is hard for 2 persons who love each other to be far away.