what do you do to get along with the in-laws

You can hear what your in-laws say but you don't need to listen up. You're an adult with a baby of your own you should know what's best for your baby. If i were you I would just smile and hear what they say but will not do anything against my will. I know it's tough cause you want to follow what your heart says about your baby but you also want to be in good terms with your in-laws. They should learn to respect you too though as the mother of your baby. They can suggest, give advise, and all that...but the decision should still be up to you. They should not push you to do something you don't want to do about your baby. I am lucky with my in-laws cause they're not nosey and if there's something I don't completely agree with what they say I just smile and not say anything. Sometimes when we don't respond to people they get to think twice about what they are actually doing. They are not dumb...they know when they're crossing the line. Take care.