Can You Take NO As An Answer ???
@always_natalia (444)
Indonesia
May 28, 2009 10:28pm CST
A few weeks ago my friend got a call from his ex-wife. She wants him to come back and love her again. It's not possible now, because my friend has already married to someone else and they're expecting a baby soon. So he said NO, but his ex keeps calling him nights and days, try to get his love and attention.
When my friend told me about this, I told him to change his phone number and live a happy life with his lovely wife. Some people just can't take NO as an answer.
What about you, can you take NO as an answer???
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4 responses
@macdingolinger (10386)
• United States
29 May 09
That's a sad situation! He probably does need to change his number and all. He may also need to file a restraining order or something.. It sounds like he's really nice and that may be the problem. He has caller ID more than likely... just don't answer the phone when it is his ex.... It does sound like she cannot take "no" for an answer either! I can take no.. actually I back way off if I think it's a no!
@always_natalia (444)
• Indonesia
8 Jun 09
Yes, his phone has caller ID and he try not to pick it up when she calls. But they said it's really annoying when his ex-wife calls in the middle of the night or during the work time. So I recently suggested them to buy a cell phone who can block the number and reject the calls from blocked list automatically.
@kelpie (190)
• United States
29 May 09
Yes. It might hurt, but I would take no for an answer. Plus, I would not like to mingle with other people's relationships. That's pretty... horrible of her. And immature. There are other fish in the sea, dear. Leave this lovely couple expecting a baby alone!
@always_natalia (444)
• Indonesia
30 May 09
You're right, it's not good to interfere with other's marriage. My friend get divorced to his ex-wife because she left him for a richer man. Now, that the rich man is gone, she wants to come back and disturbing my friend's life.
My husband and I have told my friend to tell his ex-wife to back off or change his phone number, so that he can his new wife can live peacefully.
Thank you for your response.
@g_aileen09 (1354)
• Philippines
8 Jun 09
Saying no is not always tantamount to rejection. It simply is for the best.
@mocha_momo (212)
• United States
29 May 09
I am the complete opposite of your friends ex you speak of. In fact when my ex broke up with me, yes he left me, even had the nerve to use the old it's not you it's me line, and tell me I did everything right. Anyways, he broke up with me told me it was over, not to call, text, not to do anything, three years and just like that he cut it off. My friends all said I should have cussed him out, yelled, and just acted entirely, to me, irrationally to me.. I didn't I just walked away, I accepted that it was over, that was months ago, now due to his efforts, we talk now, hang out, it's like we're dating, without the title, and I'm happy, cause having him out of my life hurt more. So maybe we won't be together now, but I can accept that, as long as he is still there. You can't change how people feel, or what they want, you just have to accept it. Sometimes what people DON'T want is you, you must accept no.
