Do you wait for someone to come in to your life?

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India
May 29, 2009 3:05am CST
This is regarding relationship. Suppose you are single and looking for a date or partner. Do you wait for a person to come in to your life or do you take the first step to know other people, make friendship, propose etc?
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11 responses
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
31 May 09
my grandmother always told me men won't come knocking at my door, they do not even know who I am. So I had to go out and look them. It is not easy finding a good relationship in life that is for sure.
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• Malaysia
29 May 09
I'll just wait for someone to come in my life, but for now i'm not into serious realtionship. I just have fun and making lots of friends..
• India
31 May 09
Hope you find your mate.
• Malaysia
3 Jun 09
hahaha..thx..happy mylotting
@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
30 May 09
Well, it certainly depends on the kind of life one is leading... like if there is very little chance of the person to meet other people... then searching should be done... like going to places where one will meet a lot of different people... i know of some who did not bother to search... and they ended up alone and lonely... and some who went out of their way to meet other peeople... and they were able to find the love of their life...
• India
3 Jun 09
Hello my friend VANILLAREY Ji, It is sad to dis-appoint you taht our age has crossed such scenerios. We have almost completed our life wheel. May God bless You and have a great time.
@jellymonty (2352)
29 May 09
No I don't wait for someone neither do I go out to look for someone. I am happily single at the minute and I think that someone out there is waiting for me so I'm going to take my sweet precious time. Besides I really don't want anyone at the minute. Been single for six years and couldn't be happier..
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
3 Jun 09
Hi, i belive strongly in destiny and fate, and if somebody want to be with me, and God have some plans for me...i am here. I don t make first step to find somebody, never, just because is not my style.
• Philippines
29 May 09
I'm a shy type of girl so definetely I just wait for someone to come. I just wait for someone to court me. Even if I like someone I dont want to make the first move. If I dont feel that he likes me I wont let him know that I like him. hehe! If we are really for each other I think the guy will make the first move.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
29 May 09
I am very friendly and often talk to strangers just to get to know them....and once in a while it does lead to a date....it's been a long time though...LOL....I am getting older and the offers are getting fewer and farther in between!
@anetteh (3590)
• Sweden
29 May 09
No I am not. I am god with being single. I have been married for 12 years, we were togehter for 20. I am now 43 years old, my kids are old enough to care for them selfs most of the time, so I am just fine with being single.. That is I am not looking for anyone...but if there is someone waiting to turn up when I least expect it...then who knows...
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
29 May 09
I tend to believe that if you make the decision to live a full life pursuing your interests and you are a nice friendly person, you will make friends and when the time is right the 'one' may well appear in your life! I don't think you should take steps to 'make it' happen but it certainly won't if you lock yourself in your house and never go out and do things! Search within yourself, find out what makes your heart sing, get out and do it, if love is meant to be, it will be.
@bodhisatya (2384)
• India
29 May 09
I would rather wait, and would react than act. I would wait for a person to come in my life rather going oput there for a full time search. Nice post though!!