Say you have a freind with benefits BUT his best friend is really...............

Oh well of course I would stop seeing the "friends with benefits guy" I would never try and be with 2 guys at one time.lol I am not like that. The best friend knows,we all hang out a few nights a week for a few hours. The guy who I am "seeing halfway" is almost like my best guy friend and because we know we couldnt ever be n e more then what we are. I think he would encourage me and his best friend because atleast it could potentially be somthing for the both of us....BUT im just scared to bring it to his attention because of the possibilty of him having feelings... he means alot to me and I dont wanna hurt him but I have better chances with his friend....gosh that sounds horrible.lol

Okay. Yes I see were your coming from.. I do think what you said is what I should do... Theres more to the story that makes it more complicated but I cant really post it here.. But I wanna thank you for the advice... a++ for you:).......

ok say it was me, and you and my best friend. i would be like dang you and him, and now we're going to hook up. i would have to question how much trust i could give to you. and wonder if you guys would still keep doing the friends with benfit thing. just keeping it real. but yeah if i was me it would like weird and would wonder about if would still keep or not, if not with him but someone else. this is why friends with benfit isnt really good. but i would stop that for awhile before trying to hook up with his friend.

Oh beleive me I usually do to.. I made an exception for this one. Now its kinda kicken me in the butt. BUT then I think. If I hadnt of made that choice would I have ever met the friend??...