Can anybody see our discussion here? Can they see our profile as member?

I think one can see everything on the web.I had a friend telling me that she had got to know all my web activities. All that you need to do is to type in a few relevant info about anyone and the serach leads to all your activities. It is easier for a person who knows the other person's name. If you are so particular about hiding any information , then dont give any private info about yourself..

If there is not absolute trust in a relationship, why bother trying. Does he not trust you, or do you write things here about your relationship that he will not like to read. If the two of you cannot be open about everything, or if he does not want you to have some privace, thus not trusting you, then you have no future together. I am not saying this for no reason. I have seen it over and over again and have experienced it myself. My ex-girlfriend did not trust me so we broke up. How can one stay in a relationship if there is not trust. I hope you make the right decision. Either speak to him asking if he trust you. You should also be able to speak to him about things that bother you. Don't talk to others about the things that bother you in your relationship, speak to him. Well, I did not answer your question but instead gave you a counselling session. I just don't like to see people being in relationships where there is no trust. Many blessings

Yes,he can see you if he get you and also can see your profile too.Sometimes i also found my old friend here.I think they have quit but it is not.Dont afraid the ratio your boyfriend can get you here is small.I believe he will not find or get you.There is a lot of people here.Have anice day.

Anyone can see all of your discussions and everything you have done on myLot. If your boyfriend is not a member, then he wont be able to respond to any of the discussions, but he can read what everyone else has said. If you are worried about it, I would just tell your boyfriend about myLot. Hiding something from him is just asking for problems in the future. Tell him what you are doing and why. He might be more supportive than you think. If he gets upset about something you dont feel is a problem, is this the kind of person you really want to be with? It seems to me like there might be deeper problems then just myLot!

I dont think you can, I think you need to be a member to see discussions, log out then try and see a discussion to see if you can. Thats the only way I can think of to double check. If you dont want him seeing it that bad then make sure you log out everytime you have finished and clear your history. I know its alot to go through but if you really think he wont understand then it may be your on only resort.

Sorry,I have no idea. I am new here.But I assume he can see the discussion from the search engine. Since he will never understand what was going on here, why not try to have a conversation with him? Good luck.

When you have concerns about how posted information is used in forums, in many cases you can refer to the site's Privacy Policy. myLot's is posted here: http://www.mylot.com/o/privacy.aspx In their policy, they specifically remind members that this is a public site. Anything you post in the discussions area can be viewed by members and non-members alike and could even be pulled up in a search engine result, too, if someone were either searching for your name or perhaps a topic that you were writing about. myLot does take the time to caution us about disclosing personal information. Here is a snip from that Privacy Policy: "Discussion Board myLot is a self-regulated social network that encourages myLot members to interact with each other through a discussion board. The myLot discussion board is publicly displayed; meaning members and non-members can view any discussion. Please keep in mind that any private information that you voluntarily post on a discussion board will be displayed. For the safety of all myLot members, we would strongly discourage members from posting any personal information about themselves on a discussion board..." It continues but that's basically the meat and potatoes of it. I hope this helps you, not only here at myLot, but also in regards to any other sites where you may decide to participate :)

Yes! I've seen mylot so often on search engines. Remember we have tags each time you post a discussion, that's what the search engines use to reference a discussion here and it really works, they have very good search engine optimization in here. Nothing goes private even the stories that we post. When I search for something I see mylot discussions on the first page and they are really informative when it comes to data that you need.

just clear you history every time you log off and log out before you leave.