Are you the type who tends to criticize everyone including yourself?

Hi. I always expect best from myself and others as well and if I don't get it, I do tend to get annoyed with it. Being a captain of few sports team in inter house school tournaments, it was always important for me to find the right balance between criticism and appreciation, but I always was biased toward criticism then appreciation. Now, I try to make comments that can be taken as positive or constructive criticism rather then demoralizing.

i don't like criticizing people and make them upset though i do criticize myself but that does not matter because it is corrective and it means i have to change direction, people tend to take criticism as a fight and they often think that they are being relegated when they are criticize so the best thing to do is criticize in a gentle and unsuspecting manner and that is what i do

Criticizing is good, but don't exceed. As far as i know, i criticize others too, but i do not speak it out, it is just on my mind, but there are times that i speak it frankly to the person. I do criticizing myself too often. A small mistake is a serious thing.

I have perfectionist tendencies and it is something I am working at changing because it is a stressful way to live, I think. I do criticise myself and I can be my own worst enemy at times! I don’t think I am overly critical towards others because my belief is live and let live. My mother and father are very critical people and I have seen how mean it makes them seem and I vowed a long time ago not to ever come across like them. Who am I to tell others how they should live anyway?

Hello my friend Rajib Ji, First thing, what i have observed here, you are of submessive nature. But if want to make study, I recently posted a discussion on Recial' trouble in Aystralia. If you go there you may find some some fruitful out-come. Mu hubby criticises including himself. May God bless You and have a great time.

Nope. I am a wonderful and fantastic human being, why would I need to criticize myself? As for the criticism of others, it's a rare thing and generally not worth the time. That said, criticism is not necessarily negative.

Yes, I do criticize others and myself. Criticizing is liking correcting a person if taken in good sense. We should point out things for other people to understand. A good critic would be a well wisher. Making fun is not criticizing.

More so to myself than on somebody else. I am exteremely hard on myself. And will often get in trouble with hubby for putting myself down and always feeling like the things that go wrong in our family are my fault, even when they have nothing to do with anything I've done.

I am a perfectionist so I have the tendency to criticize those who do not meet my requirements. Nevertheless, I assure that I do not go beyond. I know that there will really be imperfections which are beyond the capacity of humans to solve so I am leaving some sense of understanding. I make sure my criticisms are constructive and not destructive.

i can be overly critical if i choose to be.. im a stickler for details so i mean if i watch lets say a movie and notice a flaw it will bug me but i dont freak out or anything and im much harder on myself than anyone else.. usually i dont even mention when i see something to criticize in others i keep it to myself

no, i don't have the right to criticize others cause in the first place i am also should be criticize so why bother. people have the tendency to criticize others, it can be through looks, status in life, accomplishments, talent etc. but in the end they can't do anything about themselves. there are so many things in life that is happening right before our owns eyes, so why bother having the time to criticize others, is there a benefit from it?

I find that I criticize myself. It was accepted and even praised as "modesty" in my family growing up. My husband hates how I always put myself down. He says that I would never hold anyone else up to the standards I set for myself. That is true. I think I better change my ways before I teach my own children to put themselves down.

hi dada... how are you..? i criticize myself a lot. at every mistake i tend to blame myself. this does not mean that i don't value myself.when i citicize myself i don't tend to criticize others. i look into my own weak points and mostly occupied with them, so i don't get time to think about other people and their weaknesses.

yes, i critcize but if u mean that criticize from bad angle, then no. i mean from all sides. i wish if i would be criticised by some one that it would help me not to commit mistakes. once i read that criticism can make a person better perfact. but i think criticism and back biting are not same. what do u think?

I don't criticize unless asked to and that's pretty rare. I know that every single human being has their own story, their own problems and everyone has a reason for being the way they are. If I don't approve of something coming from another person, I usually avoid them or whatever specific thing it is about them. Oh, sometimes I'll see something that's just too funny NOT to comment on, but I wouldn't dare say anything to them or within earshot because I wouldn't want to hurt their feelings. Everyone is entitled to look the way they want, walk the way they want, drive whatever they want, etc. I'm sure more than one person has said something about me behind my back. It doesn't bother me at all. I am who I am and it works for me. If they don't like it, that's too bad. I've known people who criticize everything and everyone. I would never call them my friend! People should care more about improving themselves instead of seeing faults in others.

Well as a child I was very opinionated and sometimes people would mistake that as being critical, and now that I'm older I'm still opinionated, but I learn that sometimes accept for when I'm on sites like this, a person in the real world has to keep there opinions to themselves, sometimes and not always say things out loud becuse people can be really sensitive and misinterpret something as a criticism that in fact is not.

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You are right that that as human as we are we tend to criticize others in whatever aspects of their life.We always heard that there are two criticism one is the constructive criticism and the other is the destructive criticism.Most often, we throw a lot of destructive criticism but it is worst when people love to criticise to feel seperior than others. In reality check there are really people who loves to criticized and give bad feedback to feel that there are more important compared to others. Everyday i always heard and recived criticism but i am too picky to let it sink in my mind. I dont let someone's criticism to let me down.

I wouldn't say that I criticize persay but I do always have an opinion. I mean there is always right and wrong but then there is logic and dumb too. I have friends who ask for advice all the time and I am not Dr. Phil or anything but I believe I give pretty good advice but it seems like they never listen so then I start giving my real opinion. In regards to myself I tend to criticize and enjoy other people criticing me because I learn from it. Ever since high school I always wanted to be an editor of a magazine and write. I didn't write much in high school but lately I've started writing and I need people's opinions about what is good, bad, etc. Some people who are overly confident are the ones who tend not to take criticism well because they believe they are the best and when other people tell them to their face there not its hard for them to handle.

I tend to not really criticize anyone except myself. I'm pretty laid back and I don't like getting involved with other people's business. The only time I really criticize others is when their actions effect me. For example, I might criticize a colleague if they fail to do something they were supposed to at work and I have to do it instead, which adds to my workload even though it was their job to being with. But, other than that, I try not to worry myself much with others. I do criticize myself, though....quite a bit.